Help Family problem

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Halos araw araw nalang nag aaway parents ko. Early 50s at late 40s na sila ,kung noon papa ko napaka babaero ngayon si mama naman . Gulong gulo na ko . Pag andito ok naman sila pero pag umaalis ako panay away . stress na ko na stroke din kasi mama minsan naawa ako lage nalang umiiyak kahit alam kong kasalanan din nya si papa naman walang tigil kaka bunganga , may taga sumbong kasi di namin alam kung sino .Anu ano hinahalungkat cp messenger kahit 5 yrs ago na message issue parin. Last year pa to di matapos tapos Sobrang stress na ko , wala kong masabihan kasi wala na yung kapatid ko nag iisa nalang ako . Isabi ko man sa kaibigan ko di naman ako matulongan . Alam ko kasalanan ni mama kumabit sa taga kabilang barangay . ayaw nya kasi aminin hanggang sa napgtagpi tagpi na lahat . noong una naiinttindihan ko si papa akala ko ok na kasi ok na nga sila kaso si papa napagpapaniwala sa nagsusumbong sakanya (taga dun sa barangay ng kabit ni mama) . bubungangaan nya si mama magsisimula nanaman sila . Di ko na talaga alam ang gagawin ko gulong gulo na ko gusto ko nalang umalis kaso di pwede walang mag aaalaga kay mama.BTW 25 yrs old narin po ako Pasensya na wala na ko ibang mapagsabihan.

 

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Hi there! I'm sorry to hear that you're going through a really tough time with your parents' constant fighting. It sounds like it's causing a lot of stress and anxiety for you, and that you feel like you don't have anyone to turn to for support.

It's important to remember that you don't have to go through this alone. There are people who can help you figure out what to do next and how to cope with the situation. One option might be to talk to a therapist or counselor. They can provide a safe and confidential space for you to talk about your feelings and help you come up with strategies for dealing with the stress and anxiety that you're experiencing.

You might also want to consider reaching out to a trusted family member or friend who you can confide in. Sometimes just having someone to listen can make a big difference.

In terms of your parents' fighting, it sounds like there are a lot of complicated issues at play, including infidelity and trust issues. It's not uncommon for these types of issues to cause a lot of tension and conflict within a family. However, it's important to remember that you are not responsible for their behavior or their problems.

It might be helpful to set some boundaries for yourself in order to maintain your own mental and emotional well-being. This could mean taking some time for yourself to do things that you enjoy, like reading, watching a movie, or going for a walk. It could also mean setting limits on how much time you spend around your parents when they're fighting, or finding a safe and quiet place to go when things get too intense.

Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what steps you want to take next. Just remember that you don't have to go through this alone, and there are people who can help you navigate this difficult situation.

 

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ikaw ba si chiara fiero? hehe same kasi yung story mo sa story ng Dirty Linen tv series

tapusin mo lang pag-aaral mo at humiwalay ka kaagad diyan, kung anu man problema nila that's none of your business