[XX='Alcei, c: 763159, m: 1337814'][/XX] This one will definitely be a cringey one HAHA and it's the same girl on both of your question, anyways it's prolly the girl I've dated way back in my senior year at high school.. Dude, I've spent at least almost a year courtin' her from my junior year till she answered me at my senior year, it's actually a healthy relationship (yep almost like a fairytale type of relationship). But everything changed when we've gotten to college, I was accepted to a prestigious university (definitely not flexin' on this one) out of town while she stayed in town on a normal university.. It was the so called "long distance relationship" that destroyed our relationship.. It was doable the first maybe 3 months, we always talk to the phone and shared some stuffs we've encountered everyday.. But after that 3 months, it became quite dim, I will often calls due to my exams and same as her, we still got the weekends though but that didn't stopped the crumblings.. Anyways, 3 more months later and one day she told me that we should breakup and I was actually expectin' that seeing that everything's blurry already.. I accepted it, she accepted it and said we should stay as friends, I said why not? But a month later I've heard that she was already preg-nant with a child with another man.. Dude we have only kissed when we are still together and that was only on the forehead, considering that she introduced me to her parents and I respected her father's wish to not touch her purity (I'm an idiot I know HAHA). It was quite a shock for me but that actually made me relief at some point, thinking that yeah I'm really not yet ready to be in a relationship that time and that relationship was a blessing in disguise, teaching me stuffs that I should know for future references HAHA.. Now, I'm just waitin' to see her again and her child, we are still friends you know.. I actually wanted to be a godfather of her child but was unable to attend the baptism.. And that's my long a-s-s answer right there.. Told ya it'll be cringey af HAHAHA.. Sorry for the late reply by the way, I was pre-occupied with some stuffs..