What if di nako masaya

[dark07]

pag toxic na need na talaga bumitaw mahahanap mo naman ung saya sa iba , sa una lng naman masakit once naka move on kana , magiging ayos na ang lahat , at may mag papasaya na sayo .

 

[Potatoseven]

Always choose happiness.

 

[BrookBackMT]

Kung happiness lang ang pipiliin tingin mo mabubuo ka ng parents mo?

 

[Potatoseven]

Kung happiness lang ang pipiliin tingin mo mabubuo ka ng parents mo?

Well yes ofc. They are happy with each other that's why they fell in love. Love that comes from happiness is a thing.

 

[BrookBackMT]

Well yes ofc. They are happy with each other that's why they fell in love. Love that comes from happiness is a thing.

But happiness is not enough pag dating sa love. Kaya nga ang may vow sa kasal na sa habang buhay,sa hirap at ginhawa,sa sakit man o kalusugan,
at mamahalin mo siya sa habangbuhay. Short term lang ang happiness. Love is life time

 

[Potatoseven]

But happiness is not enough pag dating sa love. Kaya nga ang may vow sa kasal na sa habang buhay,sa hirap at ginhawa,sa sakit man o kalusugan,
at mamahalin mo siya sa habangbuhay. Short term lang ang happiness. Love is life time

Wrong. Love isnt a lifetime. Hindi araw araw mahal mo ang tao. Same lang yan sa happiness. It is still up and down. That's y it is more practical to choose happiness.

 

[BrookBackMT]

Wrong. Love isnt a lifetime. Hindi araw araw mahal mo ang tao. Same lang yan sa happiness. It is still up and down. That's y it is more practical to choose happiness.

Then what is your definition of love?

Wrong. Love isnt a lifetime. Hindi araw araw mahal mo ang tao. Same lang yan sa happiness. It is still up and down. That's y it is more practical to choose happiness.

I might be wrong pero kung down edi sadness na yun. Hindi na happiness hahahaha

 

[Potatoseven]

Then what is your definition of love?

Simple . It is a deep affection towards someone. Actually when you love someone, it can actually give u happiness, it can also hurt you. Pero if you think it carefully, kung inuna mo happiness before love, mas malolower yung risk.

Then what is your definition of love?


I might be wrong pero kung down edi sadness na yun. Hindi na happiness hahahaha

Partially true. Not happy does not mean sad. Emotions are complicated, u can feel empty too. We are complicated creatures, if you want simplify it , choose happiness. It is not guaranteed but as the author said, he/she is giving us an option , meaning may option for "happiness" then go for it.

 

[BrookBackMT]

Simple . It is a deep affection towards someone. Actually when you love someone, it can actually give u happiness, it can also hurt you. Pero if you think it carefully, kung inuna mo happiness before love, mas malolower yung risk.

Then magkaiba nga tayo. For me kasi love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast. It is not proud, it is not rude.I t is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts
Always hopes, and always perseveres

Simple . It is a deep affection towards someone. Actually when you love someone, it can actually give u happiness, it can also hurt you. Pero if you think it carefully, kung inuna mo happiness before love, mas malolower yung risk.


Partially true. Not happy does not mean sad. Emotions are complicated, u can feel empty too. We are complicated creatures, if you want simplify it , choose happiness. It is not guaranteed but as the author said, he/she is giving us an option , meaning may option for "happiness" then go for it.

Okay na ako na may true kahit partially lang coming from you. Hahaha. Do you always choose happiness vs love sa buhay mo?

 

[Potatoseven]

Then magkaiba nga tayo. For me kasi love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast. It is not proud, it is not rude.I t is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts
Always hopes, and always perseveres

Yep , if that's your definition then thats it. I won't complicate it any further.
It is more like an idealistic description tbh. Ill stick the the real definition of the english word though.

Then magkaiba nga tayo. For me kasi love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast. It is not proud, it is not rude.I t is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered.
It keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.It always protects, always trusts
Always hopes, and always perseveres


Okay na ako na may true kahit partially lang coming from you. Hahaha. Do you always choose happiness vs love sa buhay mo?

Yes, and its my simplistic way of living . Mahirap pero kinakaya. Kasi may guilt minsan. Pero sa lahat ng sinabi ko is sa ideal way of living ko ha. Sa ibang tao sympre iba din. Tropa ko hindi ganito btw. We are opposite

 

[BrookBackMT]

Yep , if that's your definition then thats it. I won't complicate it any further.
It is more like an idealistic description tbh. Ill stick the the real definition of the english word though.

We finally agree. Hahaha btw I like that lyrics from yeng constantino song.

 

[Potatoseven]

We finally agree. Hahaha btw I like that lyrics from yeng constantino song.

Yeh, you will be surprised din sa ibang tao. Pero ayun, try to stay close on what u feel. Kasi at the end of the day, ikaw lang din magdedesisyon.

 

[BrookBackMT]

Yep , if that's your definition then thats it. I won't complicate it any further.
It is more like an idealistic description tbh. Ill stick the the real definition of the english word though.


Yes, and its my simplistic way of living . Mahirap pero kinakaya. Kasi may guilt minsan. Pero sa lahat ng sinabi ko is sa ideal way of living ko ha. Sa ibang tao sympre iba din. Tropa ko hindi ganito btw. We are opposite

At finally nakakuha na ako ng Yes sayo. Hahahaha. Tama naman may kanya kanya tayong view pero ang malaga pinili natin ang gusto nating piliin. Baka ako pa nga tropa mo eh. Di mo lang alam. Hahahaha

 

[Kenspeckle]

Isa sa mga natutunan ko sa love e hindi araw araw consistent yung mga gusto mo like may time na mafefeel mo na dika na happy na parang may kulang, parang wala na yung love, anjan pa yung time na maicocompare mo pa sa ibang relasyon yung relasyon mo, pag laging negative mindset mo sa relasyon na meron ka aabot ka talaga sa salitang bibitaw kana lang. Remember love is a two way process hindi mo masosolve ang problema na yan ng mag isa kalang dahil dalawa kayong involved jan.

 

[baccadesu]

Kausapin mo sya at sabihin ang nararamdaman mo..ipahinga mo muna ang puso mo.at magisip isip.magpahinga muna kayo pansamantala .after a months or what na hindi mo sya nakakausap or nakikita at hindi mo man lang din sya namiss.ibig sabihin nun wwala ng pagmamahal. Saka ka bumitaw.but make sure na yun lang ang reason mo. At hindi dahil may iba ng nagpapatibok ng puso mo or may nakikita k ng iba

This! Ganitong ganito naging sitwasyon ko, we're at 7th year of our relationship hindi naging madali ang pag amin ko sa partner ko na hindi na ako sigurado sa nararamdaman ko sa relationship namin, I doubted my love for him. Nagpahinga kami sa isa't isa ng isang buwan, hindi planado pero nag usap kaming magkita uli at magkasama at that moment I realized na mahal na mahal ko yung taong to, hindi ko kayang wala sya sa buhay ko. Now, para kaming bagong mag jowa, kilig na kilig sa isa't isa. Okay lang mag take a break, pero wag sumuko kaagad, huwag tayong basta mag decide while we're too emotional, pag isipang mabuti kasi maaring pag sisihan mo yun sa huli.

 

[Pirata101]

Isa sa mga dahilan kung bakit nagiging boring ang isang relasyon kasi minsan dun nalang lahat naka focus or umiikot at buhay natin. Try mo bigyan time sarili mo, (i treat mo din minsan o self gift) mag paka busy ka sa work/acads/hobbies/try someting new/, etc. Pero kung wala na talagang spark o pag asa, better na i give up na lang kesa mag suffer ka or kau. Tandaan ang tunay na kasiyahan di nag mumula sa isang relasyon o pera or anu pa man sa mundo. Real happines start from you, from our inner self. Or contentment sa kung anong meron tayo ngayon. Best of luck ts.

 

[JOHN STEPHEN]

Hays

 

[4ever_pain]

Bitaw na friend

 

[Marshanz]

di kana happy at wala ka ng gana kase nagsawa ka na sa relasyon nyong dalawa at nakakita kana ng bago ? isipin mo muna noong nag umpisang maging kayo andun din yung excitement mo pero tingin mo if bibitawan mo kaya ? may mababago ?

 

[Tetsuuuu]

Siguro kase habang tumatagal mas tumataas standards mo like kada makakakita ka ng couples or kdrama movies etc, may kilig which siguro possible na ganun hanap mo. In every way pwede isurvive as long as you want kung di ka happy to him/her find your own happiness kasama siya and if ever you can talk to him/her na di ka na masaya sa situation na ganto and syempre pag narinig nya yun, possible na gumawa sya paraan to make you happiest diba?

There is no such thing as, "Falling out of love." Sinubukan muna niya; nagtiis muna siya. However, the sad thing is, the person didn't try to talk to the other and didn't open up his feelings. Sinarili niya, kaya naipon, hindi niya kinaya, kaya umabot sa pagsuko.

Never hide your emotions especially if it involves your partner or your relationship.