Should I give up for this kind of situation :(

[P a l i n d r o m e]

Pa help, kailangan ko pa bang ipagpatuloy aking nararamdaman sakanya kahit na may motibo paren sya sakanyang ex.. naghiwalay kasi sila a couple of months ago tas pumunta si guy sakanilang probinsya. Actually 2 yrs silang mag on. Then after that situation ay nagkakilala kami ni gurl in a few months but before kami nagkakilala ay naging magkaklase kami nung 1st year highschool(2014). Inamin nyang crush nya ko since 1st yr pero di ko daw sya pinapansin. Tas ayon bumawi ata si tadhana sakanya tas ako ngayon ang patay na patay sa kanya. Umakyat naku ng ligaw sakanya since november 2020 hanggang ngayon. Naging sweet talaga kami sa isat-isa. Untill then na ako naman ang lumuwas ng city para magtrabaho. Pero still meron parin kaming communication. But I always overthink about the situation that knowing na bumalik na daw si guy galing probinsya(this year: january) at pumunta sakanilang bahay para humingi ng tawad at makipagbalikan. Untill then parang nanghihinaan ako ng loob para ipagpatuloy yung feelings ko sakanya. It seems na parang gusto nya rin ata makipagbalikan sakanyang ex. Kailangan ko pa bang ipaglaban yung feelings ko sakanya or e gigive-up ko nalang talaga.

Honest feelings and bad timing make the most painful combination

 

[ionlysee]

Talk to her. Kung mahal mo, hahayaan mo sya kung saan nya gusto. Mag move-on kana agad, madali mang sabihin pero mahirap gawin, kung nakitaan mo sya ng pagbabago, ibig sabihin di mo sya mapipilit. Tatagal lang lalo kung di mo agad iaapproach yung problem. Tanggapin mo nalang kung ano yung mangyayari.
People come and go until the right one comes. Wag mo pahirapan sarili mo, make it clear between the two of you once and for all.

 

[Tittynope]

Sabihin mo sa kanya nararamdaman mo, tanungin mo sya. Mahirap yan may toxic na ex eh. Talo ka jan, 2 yrs din sila matagal'2 din. Communication is the key

 

[aldene]

lods kung ikaw tlga ang bida/main character jan s kwentong yan ikaw yung pipiliin ni ate gurl, totoong may destiny kung mgkkbalikan at mgkakatuluyan cla yung ex tlga yung male lead.

 

[borokot]

wala na ts naputukan na yun ano aasa ka parin? focus sa work marami naman jan

 

[Tittynope]

Kaya nga hahahhaaha

 

[bleuaine]

aww. kausapin mo po muna, tanungin mo kung sino ba mas matimbang sa inyong dalawa nung ex nya. pag di ikaw pinili, move on nalang po at focus sa work. godbless po

 

[Tilamsik]

sadly baka rebound ka lang nya at hindi pa nagffade ang feelings nya sa ex

 

[P a l i n d r o m e]

Salamat sa advice guys. I am hoping na mareresolve ko eto as long as possible. Ayoko ma stuck sa ganitong sitwasyon. Nawala tuloy yung dating ako. Yung dating masayahin na ako. Pucha.

 

[JMPBoxz]

hmmmmmm ang mahirap don ts dapat hindi na siya nag paramdam sayo, may nararamdaman pa pala sa past anyway, move on ts make yourself busy

 

[loki616]

One way to find out. Confront her.

 

[Muffins_]

+1 dito

 

[Alcei]

That kinda sucks, man! But you know what? My advise to you is that don't make any decision that you'll regret. Or rather make a risk than making a regret not making a move at all.

In your story, I think you two had a connection because like what you've said she had a crush on you way back. Then you have moments, you have a chance brother. The only problem is that your not there so you might have a very slim chance but still better than nothing. So if you really like her that much, it worth making effort and maybe. Who knows? Just maybe she choose you over her dumb ex-lover.

GOOD LUCK, Brother. Hope we hear Good News from you. That's all.

 

[Alcei]

Hot Damn! What the heck is wrong with you people? Can't you just feel positive for a moment for our Fellow PHC Brother here. You people, sucks! Hahaha

 

[Alcei]

That's perfectly normal, man. I mean, considering what's been happening in your potential love story. But your story have yet to end so DON'T LOSE HOPE YET!
IF YOU REALLY LIKE her that much then go fight for her. Fight for her until she says so otherwise.

 

[borokot]

[XX='Alcei, c: 762705, m: 1337814'][/XX] reality na agad since ldr dme pwede mangyare. para na din d na sya umasa

 

[Arn--Arn]

Sky is the limit. Hanap ka ng maraming katotnakan at maging pambansang syota ng bayan.

 

[BantayBahay]

ipaglaban mo at kausapin mo para sa susunod wala kang mararamdaman na regret kahit matalo GGWP

 

[P a l i n d r o m e]

Salamat idle. I'm trying my best para kahit papano

 

[P a l i n d r o m e]

Salamat sa motivation idle.. I really want to win his heart