on a serious note, magusap kayong mabuti, sabihin mo sa kanya yung mga ayaw mo na ginagawa nya at tanungin mo din sya kung bakit nya gingawa yun? at mag observe ka din, dalawin mo sya sa bahay nila, try to stay there a little longer, observe mo kung paano ugali nya sa harap ng magulang nya at iobserve mo din kung paano sya tratuhin ng mga kapamilya nya, baka kasi mamaya ganyan yung nakalakihan nyan norms, in that case medyo patience ang kailangan, di mo sya mababago basta basta, kaya i suggest, try ko influence her in a good way. Sample is yung paraan mo rin on how you live your life, mamaya angal ka ng angal sa ugali nya e ikaw din pala sablay sa area kung san din sya sablay, before you take the speck out of your gf's eye,’ take out the beam out in your own eye. don't live an hypocritical life with your gf and eventually your future wife. Live in such a way that is honoring in God's eye first and with others also. Tyaga lang kaya yan. SDG