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Unawain mo muna kung anong pinanggagalingan niya. We really don't know what are his reasons. We may see him wrong but who knows he just needs undertanding. Give him time but not long enough so you won't lose the connection. Remember that there is no lasting love without constant sacrifice.

Not until you feel that he doesn't love you anymore and there is this another party, please don't give up on him. Nakikita ko kasi is you made him like that. You made him the way he is acting now. I'm not putting the blame on you by saying all these. No. I don't mean that. I don't know if I'm right pero nakikita ko kasi is naSpoil mo siya. Yung every week na pinupuntahan mo siya with the distance you have to travel is a lot of effort already. And I can see you're very sweet. You're loving and caring. ( How I wish I could have a girlfriend like you.😅) Ang point ko dito is naging sobrang kampante na siya na kahit anong mangyari sa relationship niyo or anuman ang gawin niya is nanjan ka parin to understand and love him. Now sa case mo ngayon, nabanggit niyang magbreak kayo at ganun na lang siya kabrave to tell you that is because he knows anjan kapa din. And anjan ka lang din naman na sa sitwasyon na yan bat dimo panindigan dba? Tsaka sobrang namimiss ka lang non. Lockdown kasi.😄

Ps: I wanna know you. I wanna talk more about this. Im very willing to listen to you. May itatanong pa din sana ako. Let's save your relationship. 😊 Add me on facebook if you read this.

- Toch
 
hmmm .. first of all sis eto lang masasabi ko sayo Travelling that far is enough to tell na mahal mo talaga yung guy having gossips like that is normal kasi mga babae kayo madaldal .. same with us din naman but in order for your relationship to work kailangan both sides is marunong kayo magbaba ng pride nyo im not expert sa love aminado ako nagaaway din kami ng girlfriend ko dahil din sa ganyan pero kasi kung mahal ka talaga ng lalake iintindihin nya yung side mo... kahit na mapagood or bad pa yan ... tandaan mo niligawan ka nya dahil sa kung ano ka .. kasi kung di nya kaya intindihin yung side mo at magbaba ng pride para magkaayos kayo ... niligawan ka lang nya dahil sa looks mo... at di mo matatawag na pagmamahal yun... para saken kung ganun lang din naman iwan mo na si guy.. sorry ahh ayan kasi maaadvice ko sayo ... aminado ako nagaaway din kami ng girlfriend ko paminsanminsan dahil sa mood swings nya at sa ugali nya .. pero kahit ganun di ko sya iiwan kasi mahal ko ... mapapagod lang kami ng mapapagod kakaintindi sa inyo pero di namin kayo iiwan .. ganun ang paniniwala ko 😁
 
wag mo ipilit sarili mo sakanya, sya nmn nag sbi na ayaw n nya.. hayaan mo nlng sya kung mahal ka nya babalik yan! nasasayo nmn kung tatanggapin mo sya
 
wala naman masama kung pagchismisan niyo siya as long as totoo yung pinag-uusapan niyo sakanya. wala ka namang ginawang masama to beg for him to stay e? sana maipaliwanag mo sakanya na hindi lahat ng ginagawa mo pinanghihimasukan niya.
 
too shallow. sa tingin ko, ibabaw lang ng cuppucinno ung nalasahan mo, mas marami pang dahilan un, binigyan ka lang nya ng puzzle. kung mahal natin isang tao, kahit nonsense, sasabihin natin, para maimpress or kiligin tayo, same lang din sa break up.
 
Ask ko lang muna ts, does he ever flex you too, gaya ng pagpopost nya about a famous girl with heart emoticon? If not, nakakahurt naman yun (well, at least for me). A boyfriend shall make other girls jelous of his girlfriend, not make her feel insecure about them.

Anyway, napakaeffort mo ate gurl. Ikaw pa talaga bumabyahe para lang makita sya. Pinupuntahan ka din ba nya para lang makita ka? Sa tingin mo ba natatapatan nya mga effort mo para sa kanya? Bago mo isipin na bad girlfriend ka, naisip mo na ba kung good boyfriend ba sya sayo? Do you think worth it pa ba ang magbeg for him to stay? Ikaw lang talaga nakakapagsabi nyan ts.

But I think it's so immature of him to say na magbreak agad kayo without giving time for explanations para lang makapagayos pa kayo. Ang dali naman nya bumitaw? Ayaw mageffort to save relationship nyo? Or baka ayaw naman talaga isave at all? Naghanap lang ba sya ng dahilan para makipagbreak, tapos nakahanap sya ng ibabato sayo, kahit sobrang babaw?

Basta always remember, know your worth. If you think you gave your best but it went unappreciated, then it's time to call it quits.
 
For an update everyone?

Day 3. I'm still holding. Begging. He still replies to my chats kahit na ang cold ng replies "Ahh, Sige sige, Teka lang" and every now and then he will say "Ayoko na talaga, Wala na talaga e, Wala na kong gana" but still he is replying right?

Kakapit ako hanggang kaya ko pa. Sobrang saket, di ako sanay sa ganto. Kinukulong ko ba sya? Eh ano ba dapat gawin ko? Naniniwala kasi ko na kaya ko ibalik sa dati e. Sobrang babaw ng pinag-awayan namin pero para sakin sobrang lalim nang naging relasyon namin para masira lang sa mababaw na dahilan. Kaya naniniwala ako na kaya ko to. Maaayos ko to. I did my best. I gave my everything. All the efforts I can so I can show him that im a keeper. Gifts, efforts, time, patience. All the things I thought will keep a man, I did all of those. Now di ko na talaga alam gagawin. Plus this lockdown. The borders are closed. Walang bumabyahe, hindi ko sya mapuntahan para makausap ng personal. Thank you guys for the care, for the advices. I believe in this saying "Dont let one tree burn down the whole forest" I wont let one problem bring us down. I'll fight even he is giving up. I'll fight for us hanggang kaya ko. And if that time comes, when I realized I can't bring back what is gone atleast I can say to myself that "You did your best", and I wont have any regrets. Thank you again guys!
 
Girl, why being bothered of someone who does't even know how to gave you importance for being always there for him...

Look girl, a man who doesn't even care and doesn't even felt the feelings of being ignored for some reason that's not even a big deal...

Do ya think he deserve a random begging from a random girl like you?

No way...me also a guy a simple guy but I know how is the feeling of being ignored.


I think this is the right time to let him go....and you go on for your own happiness.


There are someone who is better than him...just look and see for yourself here in phc.. :)
 
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Napaka sensitive at babaw ng boyfriend mo. Parang yun lang e. Try mo pumayag sa breakup na sinasabi nya. Hahaha. Pag mahal ka talaga nya, hihingi yan ng sorry sayo and pagsisisihan nya ginawa nya. Pag di kana nya mahal, baka ginamit nya lang yun as dahilan. Edi win win. No need magstay sa taong di ka mahal
 
Simple lang yan. Kung love k talaga nya, gagawin nya lahat para macherish relationship nyo. Kung ala syang malalim na pag ibig sa yo. At ikaw naman e love n love mo sya. You must start thinking about yourself. Give him up.
 
1st side: I just wanna say na..... Ang lalaki may pride Yan. Iniingatan nya Yan. Kung nalaman nyang parang pinagchichismisan siya. Cnu nga bang hindi magagalit. Maaanxious. Kung nabasa ng boyfriend mo Yan sa tingin ko feeling ko napahiya siya. Nasira Yung dignity nya dyan


2nd side: sa panahon NGAYON. Marami g naghahanap ng reason Para ma kapag break up. Tulad ng Sabi mo mga screenshot na Yan "ages ago". Pero feeling ko kinikimkim nya Yan. Now. gusto na nya makalaya sayo at mawala Yung anxiety nya
 
Sabi mo nga. Andami mong effort.

Para Kang nag iistack ng tower of cards. Too much effort. Knowing Pala na mag ththrow ka Lang Pala ng stone sa tower of cards na binuo mo
 
Sabi mo ang dami mong effort. Akala siguro ng boyfriend mo kayan kanyanan kalang nya. Kaya ginaganyan ka nya. Wag ka masyado marupok ts
 
Hmmm nakipag break na ba tlaga? Hmm nah usap na ba kau ? Kung ayaw nya na wag mo ipilit sarili mo let go na lng ... ..hula ku lng wag po sa na madisapoint sa sabihin ku kc Kung tinging mo mababaw lang talaga pinag Mulan ng away nyu at ayaw nya na.. meaning na nah hahanap lng talaga xa ng reason para makepagbreak sau tingin ko lng po un.. pero eto pinaka malupet andito lng ako boom😍😍😍
 
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