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Paps galing ng explanation kung meron kaming debate sana matulungan moko hahahI understand. Most people are just too emotional to understand. I am not saying it is right, but it makes total sense.
Halimbawa may pabango ka. Malapit na maubos. Nagkataon na nag grocery ka. So it makes total sense na bumili ka ng bagong pabango. Lets say mejo gusto mo mag explore ng bagong scent. So bumili ka ng bago na iba ang amoy. Sinubukan mo kung magugustuhan mo. So binuksan mo ung bago.
Does this mean dapat itapon mo nlng ung luma mong pabango? Not necessarily diba? Weather it is to keep it just in case you dont like the new, or for sentimental value, or maybe.you think your taste might revert back to what it was, it makes sense to keep the old.
Of course, i get it, iba ang karelasyon dahil tao sila. Hindi sila bagay, at may pakiramdam sila etc etc. Pero real talk lang, marami satin para magkaron ng partner, they advertise aspects of us to be used by our partner. They advertise physical attractiveness, or they play a certain character, which is meant for the other to be used until you don't have the trait anymore at for them to look for these trait from somebody else.
Combined with the culture na "kung mahal mo hindi mo bibitawan", cheating makes a lot more sense. Yes they love you a certain way, but now that you dont have your advertised traits anymore, they are forced in some kind of an empty feeling that they will try to temporarily fill with someone else while trying to "stay" with you.
Besides, cheating is not the end of the road (like young people tend to believe), but a phase. Not that i am saying it is okay, but it is often a sign of unhappiness, lack of communication, and misplaced expectations on things we think we deserve without effort, revealing reality to you. Revealing reality that people have choices and love is not the fairy tale you thought it to be.
By the way ano gagawin mo pag nag cheat sya?I understand. Most people are just too emotional to understand. I am not saying it is right, but it makes total sense.
Halimbawa may pabango ka. Malapit na maubos. Nagkataon na nag grocery ka. So it makes total sense na bumili ka ng bagong pabango. Lets say mejo gusto mo mag explore ng bagong scent. So bumili ka ng bago na iba ang amoy. Sinubukan mo kung magugustuhan mo. So binuksan mo ung bago.
Does this mean dapat itapon mo nlng ung luma mong pabango? Not necessarily diba? Weather it is to keep it just in case you dont like the new, or for sentimental value, or maybe.you think your taste might revert back to what it was, it makes sense to keep the old.
Of course, i get it, iba ang karelasyon dahil tao sila. Hindi sila bagay, at may pakiramdam sila etc etc. Pero real talk lang, marami satin para magkaron ng partner, they advertise aspects of us to be used by our partner. They advertise physical attractiveness, or they play a certain character, which is meant for the other to be used until you don't have the trait anymore at for them to look for these trait from somebody else.
Combined with the culture na "kung mahal mo hindi mo bibitawan", cheating makes a lot more sense. Yes they love you a certain way, but now that you dont have your advertised traits anymore, they are forced in some kind of an empty feeling that they will try to temporarily fill with someone else while trying to "stay" with you.
Besides, cheating is not the end of the road (like young people tend to believe), but a phase. Not that i am saying it is okay, but it is often a sign of unhappiness, lack of communication, and misplaced expectations on things we think we deserve without effort, revealing reality to you. Revealing reality that people have choices and love is not the fairy tale you thought it to be.