Continue or not

[Ch4n00]

So I've been in love with this guy since 5 months ago when we first met. Di ko lang sinasabi sa kanya nararamdaman ko kasi akala ko lang na crush lang yun feelings na yun kaso iba na eh. This is the first time na I am truly in love in my whole life. Tiniis kong di sabihin sa kanya ng 5 months pero eto ako ngayon, di ko na talaga sya kayang hindi maisip bawat oras/minuto, nag-iimagine ng future moments with him. But I already know na wala akong chance sa kanya. I won't write it down as it is very personal. But I still want to take the opportunity na baka naman may pag-asa pa. So, I need some advice for a first-timer in being in love. I have no idea about this thing. What should I do? Continue and sabihin sa kanya or don't?

 

[Scarlett OHara]

kung talagang gusto mo na talaga si guy you may take the risk of confessing though not suggested na tanongin mo sya kung may chance kayo kasi baka mag mukhang ikaw pa manliligaw which is dapat si guy.... but since it is your first time and if you are really willing to take the risk of confessing then go before its to late atleast sa pag confess mo malalaman mo din kung mutual kayo nang nararandaman kasi kung talagang gusto/inlove kana talaga and alam mong single sya try to take the risk of confessing atleast sinubukan mo

 

[airiel20]

Take risk po pero don't expect na magiging kayo

 

[Kaplok Kaplok]

We all know na mabigat ang feeling pag merong ka mga emotions na hindi mo na communicate toward sa person.

Pero paano mo nasabing "love" nga ba itong nararamdaman mo? Our minds are not able to differentiate love and infatuation. Sigurado k ba na sya tlga as a person ang iniimagine mo or just an idealized version of him? Ganyan mag operate ang emotion ng karamihan sa atin... kaya nmn may mga relation na "nagsasawa" sila sa partner nila dahil naencounter na nila ung tunay na tao which is not the same as the idealized version they fell in love with.

Then if convonced ka tlaga na "love" tlga ito, consider this: once umamin k sakanya sa feelings mo, tpos nireciprocate nya feelings mo, there will be this thought that will haunt you. "Baka naawa lang siya sakin" OR "baka pinatulan lng nya ako dahil vulnerable ako".

Now having said that hard reality, i urge you to fully internalize these thought, wait for at least one week. Pag meron ka padin urge na sabihin sakanya.. DO IT.

 

[Lolamoeksenaqueen]

Speak now or forever hold your peace.

 

[PHC_LaCe12]

May communication po kayo maam? Pangit first move ang babae dapat hinay hinay lang

 

[Potatoseven]

May communication po kayo maam? Pangit first move ang babae dapat hinay hinay lang

Previous rel ko, ginamit lang ako nung babaeng nag first move. . So kinda fishy din talaga pag nauuna babae

 

[PHC_LaCe12]

Previous rel ko, ginamit lang ako nung babaeng nag first move. . So kinda fishy din talaga pag nauuna babae

anong na feel mo kung first move ang babae?

 

[WhiteLancelot]

dapat nilagay mo din yung mga reasons why, bakit hindi at hindi pwede para matulungan ka namin mabigyan ng magandang advice. pero since babae ka, napakahirap para sayo na mag first move. just think of one moment of embarassment or lifetime of regret nalang