hehe actually you've pointed out clearly na di yun pamimilit since pwede pa din i-reject ni bata yan, and yang parenting style na yan ang most common or conventional talaga, itong argument ko is parenting style ko lang din which is very much unpopular, di mo pinipilit pero pini-persuade mo eh, the power of suggestion kumbaga, ako kasi di ako nagsa-suggest, i am more of explaining dun sa bata, kung ito ang gagawin mo eto naman possible na mangyayari sayo, ganyan lang talaga ako explain lang walang suggest, kasi i want the child to learn how to analyze the different consequences that i present, by the time na tatanungin siya bakit niya ginawa ang something ayoko na maging answer niya is yan ang turo sa akin, actually nag-aaway kami ni misis diyan since conventional gusto niya eh, eh ako nag-e-explain lang sa bawat acts na pipili-in ayoko mag suggest
Akala mo lang unpopular yang style na yan pero thats very common.. explaining to children ung consequences ng action nila whether good or bad is just another way of teaching them. Dont assume na pag sinasabi kong pagtuturo eh walang explanation… and sa case mo.. pag nageexplain ng mga possible na mangyari.. ano basis mo sa possibilities na yon?
And lets face it, sa mundo natin things just happen… hindi always rewarded ang good behavior at di always napaparusahan ang bad… teach ur kids to do the right thing regardless of the outcome. Kasi minsan ung possiblities na sinasabi ko does not happen…
No. The thing is you are painting an unrealistic scenario of a child innocently preferring to be a girl despite being being a boy, and a parent or a teacher informing them to behave properly, otherwise the child will become homosexual. That is not how they become homosexual.
And second, let say the child is already showing signs na confirmed na, do you think one time na sasabihin ni parent or teacher kung ano ang proper will make any difference? How about the second? At what point have they crossed the line between informing ang compelling?.
Well di sya unrealistic kasi thats not what im saying.. its a scenario na ang isang 6yo boy feels like girl sya and wants to be treated as such… im not saying telling him what and what not to do will make him gay… im saying na wag masamain ang pagtuturo ng magulang nea sa kanya…and the parent ang may mas authority over ibang tao sa anak nea unless that parent is being abusive…
And yes kung it turns out na homosexual ang bata ur right na it may make no difference at all.. and thats fine…kaya nga like i said na the child could either accept or reject what he is being taught. So why be bothered by the thought of parents teaching their child on a particular behaves or acts?
Good point. The truth is, i don't know that. Just like everyone, I was born and raised in a world where gender qualities are reinforced. When you mentioned that, naisip ko nga din may mga female tendency din ang anak ko (based on society standards). But I don't think that is reason enough to foresee that he will like dícks when he grow up.
But u do know ung mga tendencies na yon..kaya nga nasabi mo na anak mong lalake is lalake. Ill go as far as ultrasound nea nung sinabi senyo magasawa ang gender alam mo na lalake anak mo.. nang pinanganak alam mo din.. ng binigyan mo sya ng im assuming a name for boy alam mo na din.. that being said, even if lalake sya pd pa din syang maging gay or bi or whatever…and like dicks…..thats a possibility… would u address him as ur daughter by then? Magiging babae na ba sya for u kung sa ganong scenario?
In fact, none of a childs' apparent behavior can indicate homosexuality at all, like in your experience. These are merely traits that the guardians either nurture or dissuade.
what do you think would have happened if you nurtured your girls' kalikutan? Perhaps they could have become athletes? Or do you think they will become lesbian? What would happen if I nurture my kids love for stuff toys? An any of these case, what is the moral or logical reasoning to "inform" them what the steroetypes of society are?
Then my daughters would have been like those kids sa mall na naglulupasay sa floor pag di nabilhan ng gusto..hahaha glad my kids never went thru those phase.
Pero yah.. we can nurture or dissuade are children’s behavior..but only up to a certain point. Thats the whole point of growing up alongside our children… may mga pagkakataon na we need to protect them and teach them.. meron ding we need to help them or let them be…
Here is where u said na cause sya ng child abuse:
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Because you are imagining this as a benign scenario. Well actually pinapaliwanag lang nmn niya, at hindi naman siya galit. Hahah.
Pero an point nga, it is unwarrented when a parent disciplines a child just because the child does not behave according to the parent's or society's expectation. Letting them be does not result to them wanting to go to all-girl school or women restroom.
Hahaha im not saying na galit talaga kayo.. its just an expression that i use.. hahaha
I never said anything about disciplining the child, i will say it again.. its teaching the child.. thats it..
According sa stance ng most gender movements eh anyone who identifies as a woman is a woman, thats the same logic for girls.. so far fetched ba ang idea na isang boy na gusto mag aral sa all girls school? Or a man wanting to pee sa women’s restroom? Unless u dont agree with that.