Why Men Love Bitches is a relationship guide for women who are
“too nice.” The word bitch in the title does not take itself too
seriously—I’m using the word in a tongue-in-cheek way
representative of the humorous tone of this book.
The title and the content address what many women think, but
don’t say. Every woman has felt embarrassed by appearing too
needy with a man. Every woman has had a man pursue her, only to
lose interest the minute she gave in. Every woman knows what it
feels like to be taken for granted. These problems are common to
most women, married and single alike.
So why do men love bitches? An important distinction should be
made between the pejorative way the word is usually used, and the
way it is used here. Certainly, I’m not recommending that a woman
have an abrasive disposition. The bitch I’m talking about is not the
“bitch on wheels” or the mean-spirited character that Joan Collins
played on Dynasty. Nor is it the classic “office bitch” who is hated
by everyone at work.
The woman I’m describing is kind yet strong. She has a strength
that is ever so subtle. She doesn’t give up her life, and she won’t
chase a man. She won’t let a man think he has a 100 percent “hold”
on her. And she’ll stand up for herself when he steps over the line.
She knows what she wants but won’t compromise herself to get
it. But she’s feminine, like a “Steel Magnolia”—flowery on the
outside and steel on the inside. She uses this very femininity to her
own advantage. It isn’t that she takes undue advantage of men,
because she plays fair. She has one thing the nice girl doesn’t: a
presence of mind because she isn’t swept away by a romantic
fantasy. This presence of mind enables her to wield her power when
it is necessary...
Binabasa ko to ngayon. Maganda daw to. hihihi Enjoy reading everyone!
“too nice.” The word bitch in the title does not take itself too
seriously—I’m using the word in a tongue-in-cheek way
representative of the humorous tone of this book.
The title and the content address what many women think, but
don’t say. Every woman has felt embarrassed by appearing too
needy with a man. Every woman has had a man pursue her, only to
lose interest the minute she gave in. Every woman knows what it
feels like to be taken for granted. These problems are common to
most women, married and single alike.
So why do men love bitches? An important distinction should be
made between the pejorative way the word is usually used, and the
way it is used here. Certainly, I’m not recommending that a woman
have an abrasive disposition. The bitch I’m talking about is not the
“bitch on wheels” or the mean-spirited character that Joan Collins
played on Dynasty. Nor is it the classic “office bitch” who is hated
by everyone at work.
The woman I’m describing is kind yet strong. She has a strength
that is ever so subtle. She doesn’t give up her life, and she won’t
chase a man. She won’t let a man think he has a 100 percent “hold”
on her. And she’ll stand up for herself when he steps over the line.
She knows what she wants but won’t compromise herself to get
it. But she’s feminine, like a “Steel Magnolia”—flowery on the
outside and steel on the inside. She uses this very femininity to her
own advantage. It isn’t that she takes undue advantage of men,
because she plays fair. She has one thing the nice girl doesn’t: a
presence of mind because she isn’t swept away by a romantic
fantasy. This presence of mind enables her to wield her power when
it is necessary...
Binabasa ko to ngayon. Maganda daw to. hihihi Enjoy reading everyone!
