Closed Need ko po ng tulong nyo

[iEricson]

May Gf ako ngayon 3months na kami , may past relationship sya na umabot ng 7 years na break sila nung decemeber kasi sa 7 years 2 times na syang niloko as in 2 times na nyang nalaman na may iba na pala ung bf nya so nag decide sya na makipag break . Tapos kami classmate ko sya ng HS aminado nmn syang gusto nya ako January nagkita kami nag doon nagsimula ang lahat ang Problema hindi nya maibigay yung buong pagmahahal nya kasi hindi padin sya maka Move on dun sa past relationship nila . Ako nmn willing ako maghintay kasi mahal ko sya mahal din nmn nya ako , sinasabi nya lang na hintayin ko daw sya ? Tanong ko tama lang ba yung gagawin ko na hintayin sya kahit na anong mangyari kasi may times na nasasaktan talaga lalo na pag sinasabi nya na hindi padin daw sya maka move on .

Hindi kamiin a relationship sa social media pero alam ng mga classmate namin nung hs kasi nagkakasama kami pati ng iba nyang kapatid .

salamat sa makakatulong , keep safe sa lahat

 

[Sinandomeng99]

Pag usapan niyo po ng mabuti yan dun kayo sa wala masyadong tao mag usap ng ganyan para magka intindihan kayo po...

 

[iEricson]

Pag usapan niyo po ng mabuti yan dun kayo sa wala masyadong tao mag usap ng ganyan para magka intindihan kayo po...

Salamat , siguro nga need magusap ng ayos Call at text lng tlga ang madalas na contacts namin

 

[Sinandomeng99]

Ahhh ok² kung mahal niyo talaga ang isa't isa po gagawin niyo talaga ang lahat magka usap kayo or magka intindihan kayo....

Basta always think positive lang sa relationship niyo po....

 

[Jhommel21]

If you think that the relationship is worth keeping then do something about it. Ask yourself, is she the person you are planning to marry and have family in the future? If your answer is no or if you took too long to answer yes, then maybe you should consider letting each other explore yourselves first. Kung kayo, kayo talaga.

 

[kyne14]

Its simple.. sad to say na mahal nya pa yung boy
Ginagamit ka lng nya diversion/emotional blanket..
Set her free..
Hayaan mo sya kusa makalaya/move on.. at i ready mo self mo sa mga posible outcome..

Hindi kita sa tinatakot pero on most cases talo ng Years ang months.. Pero umiikot ang mundo at nag babago isip ng tao in a matter of sec.
Love yourself first... Remember no matter what circumstance kung kayo talaga..kayo rin mag kakatuloyan

Much better if you talk to each other im not perfect it is base on my own opinion

 

[iEricson]

If you think that the relationship is worth keeping then do something about it. Ask yourself, is she the person you are planning to marry and have family in the future? If your answer is no or if you took too long to answer yes, then maybe you should consider letting each other explore yourselves first. Kung kayo, kayo talaga.

Yun nga e may plano kami for the future , oo gusto ko sya makasama pero ung scenario namin ngayon my times na pag binubuksan ko ung messenger nya kausap nya friends feel ko ung pakiramdam nya hindi pa tlga sya naka move on ng husto .

 

[iEricson]

Its simple.. sad to say na mahal nya pa yung boy
Ginagamit ka lng nya diversion/emotional blanket..
Set her free..
Hayaan mo sya kusa makalaya/move on.. at i ready mo self mo sa mga posible outcome..

Hindi kita sa tinatakot pero on most cases talo ng Years ang months.. Pero umiikot ang mundo at nag babago isip ng tao in a matter of sec.
Love yourself first... Remember no matter what circumstance kung kayo talaga..kayo rin mag kakatuloyan

Much better if you talk to each other im not perfect it is base on my own opinion

Hindi ko kaya kanina nagusap kami tinanong nya ako kung gusto ko maghiwalay muna kami kasi alam nya nasasaktan ako sa ganun mindset nya . Pero ang sabi ko willing ako maghintay hanggang sa matanggap nya ako ng buo , inaalala nya lang na masasaktan ako pero hirap kasi lalo na pag sobrang attach nyo na isat isa . Hindi ko alam kung worth it ba hintayin ko sya baka in the end ng kakahintay hinfi din pala ako yung totoong mamahalin nya .

 

[FAKE Account]

Kung mahal ka nga nya bat pahihintayin kapa nya?
May ganon ba?
Sa T.V or Wattpad lang ata yan.
Baka naman backup plan ka.
Incase palpak plan A my Plan B.

Goodluck Bro.

 

[iEricson]

Kung mahal ka nga nya bat pahihintayin kapa nya?
May ganon ba?
Sa T.V or Wattpad lang ata yan.
Baka naman backup plan ka.
Incase palpak plan A my Plan B.

Goodluck Bro.

Hays parang ganun nga anyways tnx bro .

 

[-cynika_]

parang masasaktan ka lang diyan tingin ko lang..

 

[iEricson]

parang masasaktan ka lang diyan tingin ko lang..

Hays

 

[Mark Fredgie]

Sundin mo kung ano ang mas matimbang sa puso at isipan mo. Isipin mong mabuti tska the most important and best thing for you to do is to find a peaceful and quiet place to relax your mind, and talk to God. Ask for guidance,signs, and tell him your story even if he already know your story, he wants you to share it to him because as much as we love our parents, friends, loveones, God loves you so much and he wants you to be connected with him always. Trust me. It always works. God bless you

 

[kyne14]

Pre.. Alam ko na sagot mo.. just pray for it...
Pag nadinig nya.. Be happy and mag pasalamat ka sa kanya.. Pag hindi. You need to accept it and learn to move on mahirap lng sa una pero makakaya mo rin..

Kasi alam na ni god yung dulo ng problem mo kaya gumagawa sya ng sulotion.

Remember know you're worth

 

[NoOne Knows]

isa lang masasabi ko, iinum na lang kasi natin yan. alis ka na jan sa relationship na yan bro, wag mo lokohin sarili mo. may mas worth it pa sakanya. ang pag ibig minsan dumarating yan kung kelan di mo inaasahan, malayo pa february oks lang maging single.

 

[dummy01]

Seven years of relationship isn't that easy to forget even though she somehow likes you. I mean that woman has an emotional void you'd definitely fill in in the coming future and it's no easy task to fill in that void because it would take a lot of toll on your end (time, money, emotion, attitude, etc.). I'd rather you shouldn't expect something you would expect in a common relationship if you still pursue it because you could be in a questionable relationship. The fact that she got you dating her sooner than you might think after her long relationship and worrying about it now could be that your instinct is telling you something isn't right. Better be safe than sorry.

 

[22 Roses]

If talagang gusto mo siya, suggest ko is support mo muna yung moving on process, yung pagdating sa relationship, darating na lang yan, kung oo, edi go, kung wala, edi move on. Baka maisahan ka na biglang "may jowa na ako." so ingat lang sayo ts, be careful not to fall too much, kasi mahirap mahulog nang walang sasalo.

 

[moondhie]

Ang taong nakatingin sa nakaraan kailaman di makikita ang hinaharap.

 

[kinox44]

ts , wag ka masyadong magworry jan , let her move on completely .. wag ka masyadong mag expect. for sure masasaktan ka lang. ive been there . masakit kaya kagaya ng sabi ng iba dont fall too much. kapag ok na sya at tlgang sya yung gsto mo, go let her know your feelings.

 

[iEricson]

Alam nyo kasi iba yung impact na binigay nya sakin dahil sa kanya nakapag set ako ng goals sa buhay andami kong gustong baguhin para sa kanya , kasama ako sa mga plano nya in the future at ganun din nmn ako naguguluhan lang ako kasi sya mismo ang nagsasabi na " please wait for me " kung tatanungin ko sya kung gusto nya pa balikan ung past kahit kailan hindi na daw . naguguluhan ako kung tama ba ung gagawin ko paghihintay . Anyway thanks sa inykng lahat