Guys, I need help. Here's the thing, I think nainlove na'ko sa ex ng close friend ko and she feels the same way towards me. Ang nangyari kasi is wayback December 2020 pa nighost/ini-ignore ng friend ko this girl, 3 years na sila mag-on. Si girl naman ay lage ako nakakachat regarding sa kaibigan ko. Kung may iba bang babae? Bakit daw siya iniignore? Ako naman ay bigay ng bigay ng advice sa kanya. I was genuinely wishing for them to be happy at that time. LDR kasi sila kasi seaman yung friend ko at baka dahil siguro sa distance ay nagkalabuan sila. I just want to mention na during the stint of their relationship is never akong nagkainteres with this girl (tbh she's not my type) and have never made a move to her. I respect my friend. we've been friends since 2012 (college days).
Fast forward 2021, around January may pinagdududahan si girl na bagong jowa ng friend ko. Siyempre ako support lang, tinanong ko kaibigan ko if meron na sya iba, sabi nman ay wala. Arpil 2021 my father died from a heart attack and I fell into anxiety. And ang parati kong karamay saken is yung gf ng friend ko. Parati na kami naguusap, lalaro etc. Always ko naman siya kinukumusta sa status nila ng friend ko at still being ignored daw sya. Umuwi friend ko nitong June at sila na pala talaga nung pinagdududahan niya.
Nawarak si girl sa ginawa ng kaibigan ko, syempret di naman talaga maganda nangyari. My last relationship was also a failure, nagcheat din yung gf ko sa'kin. In a way same kami ng napagdaanan at nararamdaman. Once nagchachat kami at napunta usapan namin to something naughty, we ended up doing ãdül† stuff online(Vidjak*l). I know na what we're doing was a mistake but it just feels so right at that time, to feel comfort. And we keep doing it each time we feel lonely or sad. Usap2, ML, always ko na siyang kabo ding. Once she offered the idea na maging kami na lang? Which I purposely declined.
Now comes August, I think nahuhulog na talaga ako sa ex ng close friend ko. At ang dami kong mga doubts at questions. Should I ask my friend first na I wanna date his ex? I don't want things for us to get awkward. Tunay ba talaga feelings ni girl saken or rebound lang? I think na totoo naman pero I'm not sure, much better to ask others for opinions. I think I'm obsessed with her na. Please help.
Fast forward 2021, around January may pinagdududahan si girl na bagong jowa ng friend ko. Siyempre ako support lang, tinanong ko kaibigan ko if meron na sya iba, sabi nman ay wala. Arpil 2021 my father died from a heart attack and I fell into anxiety. And ang parati kong karamay saken is yung gf ng friend ko. Parati na kami naguusap, lalaro etc. Always ko naman siya kinukumusta sa status nila ng friend ko at still being ignored daw sya. Umuwi friend ko nitong June at sila na pala talaga nung pinagdududahan niya.
Nawarak si girl sa ginawa ng kaibigan ko, syempret di naman talaga maganda nangyari. My last relationship was also a failure, nagcheat din yung gf ko sa'kin. In a way same kami ng napagdaanan at nararamdaman. Once nagchachat kami at napunta usapan namin to something naughty, we ended up doing ãdül† stuff online(Vidjak*l). I know na what we're doing was a mistake but it just feels so right at that time, to feel comfort. And we keep doing it each time we feel lonely or sad. Usap2, ML, always ko na siyang kabo ding. Once she offered the idea na maging kami na lang? Which I purposely declined.
Now comes August, I think nahuhulog na talaga ako sa ex ng close friend ko. At ang dami kong mga doubts at questions. Should I ask my friend first na I wanna date his ex? I don't want things for us to get awkward. Tunay ba talaga feelings ni girl saken or rebound lang? I think na totoo naman pero I'm not sure, much better to ask others for opinions. I think I'm obsessed with her na. Please help.
