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How to stop being a jealous person.

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So paano ba guys matigil ang pagiging selosa?
 
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That's a symbol of your insecurity. There is a justified reason naman na maging seloso, pero if it gets to the point na it can be controlling (sinasabihan mo sya kung sino pwede nya ichat, sino kasama nya, sino friends nya, etc.), you should realize it.

Relationships require trust. If you trust him/her, you know that wala syang gustong iba. Pero kung totoo nga na meron syang iba, wala ka nang magagawa dyan. It is not your obligation to stay with him/her, and you have no right to control him/her.

Simply trust your partner. And if your partner breaks your trust, so what? Don't contemplate in something you cannot control. It is a waste of time.
 
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Normal ang pagseselos sa taong minamahal mo, wag lang yung labis,-- yan na ay masama at karaniwang pinaguugatan ng di pagkakaunawaan.
 
kenekeep ko lang lods sa sarili ko dito ko lang shinare.
Pero tinatnung ko rin kung sino kasama pag nagiiinuman sila.
 
kenekeep ko lang lods sa sarili ko dito ko lang shinare.
Pero tinatnung ko rin kung sino kasama pag nagiiinuman sila.
 
Makipagusap ka sa jowa mo TS, sabihin mo na nag nagseselos ka kesho ganto kesho ganyan para naman alam nya nasasaktan ang damdamin mo, honesty is the best policy ika nga, maging honest ka sa nararamdaman mo. Para masabi nya kung may dapat ka bang ipagselos at para na din sa peace of mind mo. Goodluck!
 
Then maybe trust issues ts. maybe nagawa nya na na magloko dati or yung time na dapat para sainyo e napupunta pa sa ibang bagay. well yung sa iba kasi easily said and done pero may kanya kanya tayong way of affection. normal lang naman yung pag seselos wag lang aabot sa point na yung nagseselos ka pero wala naman talagang dapat pagselosan. ganyan yung ex ko dati halos lahat ng babaeng kaibigan ko pinagseselosan. sakin seloso din ako pero totoo nga na meron pala talagang pagseselosan. ayun. haha
 
Love does not envy, I don't understand why people gets jealous all the time like it's taking someone else freedom to bond with some acquiattances and friends and new friends

Yang selos nayan always ang simula ng pagkasira ng isang relasyon, see to it. Isipin mo you are in his/her situation meeting an old friend or colleague they are talking about the nostalgic things happened before then bigla Kang iisapwera tapos aawayin mopa after niyo umalis
Unfair Noh? End of the day ikaw parin Yung talo,

I think People gets jealous because of lack of self control and more of being repulsive.

If you are jealous and you are making your love one to stay away to someone else it's beyond controling his/her life, it's never your choice on what she or he do, it's just you who support and correct that person you love


Minsan may mga bagay na we are just put in anger kasi Mali sila, or put to an argument

You date for marriage not some kind of things for fun Lang

You build together
Help each other
Protect each other
Move as one
There are many things do with to grow
But things when you doubting and suspecting the person you love, its wrong, don't let your past experience come to you and destroy you again,

Everyone will hurt you, you just need to find someone who's worth suffering for

If you have enough time
Read: 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
I read that all the time🤗
Godbless
 

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