How to quickly move on if ever ma reject

[Liffa_co]

So if ever ready na ako mag confess kay crush at nag confess na ako pero rejected, pano ba mahing okay at mag move on. Parang inlove na lasi ako for years(2) at close friend pa naman kami. Pano ba yun huhu

 

[Aiyu]

Pakita mo sa kanya na di ka affected once na mareject ka, pakita mo sa kanya na madami pang iba bukod sa kanya, in a good way ah syempre baka awayin mo eh

 

[Togman]

Ahhh but there's an easy way. Go ahead and confess, but if you think it's going towards rejection, play it off like you were just kidding all along, then laugh. That should at least alleviate the awkwardness I wish you luck though

 

[-FLOW-]

Confess lang at hope for the best.
Pag na reject ka wag kang tatawa at sabihing joke lang tapos aalis ka agad agad? pleaseeee no. Ini imagine ko lang napapa cringe na ako. Just no. Express mo lang emotion mo and smile, wag kang umiyak, do that later. Importante dito ay ma express mo nararandaman mo at malaman kung nasaan ka sa puso nya. Kung love interest good, pero kung friendship? Accept mo nlang and ask kung okay na friends parin kayo. Because sino parin magiging friends for 2 years?? Best i can do is within a year. If ni enjoy mo naman your time together with her as friend, walang dahilan para gawing mong akward dahil ni reject kalang... Just know na may friend kanang pag tatanungan ng tips for confession not from internet strangers...
P. S: just my opinion ( just in case na puntiryahin ako wahaha )

 

[-FLOW-]

About sa move on pala. Pag dasal mo nalang na may magustohan ka agad na iba. If not, tagay na!!!

 

[Togman]

Lol. No way you should be targeted for expressing yourself. A difference of opinion is good, we can agree to disagree, so it's all good, no worries. The advice I gave him was given to me by an older woman when I was a teenager, and it worked really well for me, so I never forgot it. If handled well, it can minimize the awkwardness after the rejection. If accepted though, it's one happy ending, so win-win

 

[tnt user]

So close friend pala kau,,so d ka mahihirapan magconfess s kanya at cgurado madali ka makaka move on,,wag mo na patagalin yan,,aminin mo na s kanya,,magdedepende lang yan kung ano ireresponse nya sau,,siguradong d negative yan kc close friend nmn kau

 

[Starrdust]

Joke pero totoo. Anshaket nyan minsan.

 

[Starrdust]

Mag confess ka sa kanya kung di mo na talaga siguro mapigilan, TS. Hehe. Kung may gusto din siya sayo, eh di mas mabuti ang outcome na yun. Kung wala naman, nasa sa inyo both ang decision kung gusto nyo i-keep ang friendship nyo and also decide how to avoid awkwardness between you two tapos move on na agad. Ang isipin mo if ever ma reject ka is, huwag mong ipilit ang sarili mo sa taong ayaw sayo.

 

[Togman]

There you go Listen to this right here

 

[Togman]

[XX='jncndlcpa, c: 1291112, m: 1832526'][/XX] lol yup, but I myself would only say it was a joke if it was a sure rejection.. if it's a positive answer then am 1000% serious then

 

[rr0131]

tama sila ts, confess na.. pero kelangan mo din maging ready sa lahat ng mangyayari.

how to move on, nasabi na din ng mga kapwa ka-phc natin pero sayo pa din ang huling decision kung paano.

goodluck, and dont worry kung ano kakahantungan, remember, we are still learning everyday.

 

[Gawr Gura]

Kapag na basted ka, wag mo na syang isipin at pansinin. Simple as that, wag mo na pahirapan yung sarili mo kakaisip ng mga mangyayari pa.

 

[Liffa_co]

ang hirap naman mang away paps haha. di nalang talaga magpaka affected.

 

[Liffa_co]

opo, nag reready narin ako kung ano man response nya pero di nalang ako mag eexcpect.

 

[Liffa_co]

Thank you guys. Buo na isip ko na mag coconfess ako at nag reready narin sa repond nya pero di narin ako mag eexpect para di rin medyo masakit. I still want to keep her as a friend kasi I know na medyo mature narin pag iisip namen kaya go lang.

 

[-FLOW-]

Good luck and we wishing you all the best!.

 

[ianbeduya21]

JUst go for it.. Wla nmn mwawala kung i try if you got rejected let it serve as a lesson it makes you stronger for the next time u engage in similar situations

 

[Togman]

Let us know how it goes! We're all waiting with baited breath

 

[Tilamsik]

so be it kung ano naging decision nya atleast sinubukan mo para walang regrets