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Tutorial How To Get A Girlfriend

Professora Akira

Oct 13, 2017
If there's one question that has perplexed men throughout history, it's how to get a girlfriend.
That question, though, can really mean different things to different menFor some who already have a girl in mind, they want to know how to get the girl.Others just want to know how to find a girlfriend prospect in the first place,while others still just want to know how to get a girl, any girl, and worry about details later.To get the girl, whoever she is, can seem impossible to a lot of guys, but it really isn't as hard as it can seem. If you use the steps and advice below, you'll be able to stop worrying about how to get a girlfriend forever.

1. Make The Decision: You Want Or Need A Girlfriend

The first thing you have to do, no matter what else you have in mind, is to commit to this process. 20 steps to do anything suggests a certain level of commitment, and this is no different. Own that desire and use it to inspire you to work toward your goal to get the girl.To really accomplish this, you have to be willing to follow every step and not quit. Don't get discouraged. You'll get results. But you have to want this.

2. Decide What The Right Girl Looks Like

You'll never know the answer to this completely. The Chemistry is funny like that. You can't predict exactly who will be perfect for you and vice versa.But you can still give yourself a bit of head start by knowing what you want in a girlfriend and what you don't want.You need to set some standards help you avoid making dating and relationship mistakes or looking too desperate.So, what do you want in an ideal girlfriend? Do you want a girl like you or one who will take you out of your comfort zone?You don't have to just look for that kind of girl, but answering "who I want to be my girlfriend?" and "why I want a girlfriend?" are just as important as answering "how to get a girlfriend?"

3. Understand Women

The eternal difficulty that we all know we must plunge on how to understand women.You'll never answer this completely, but you have to work on finding a few answers if you want to know how to get a girlfriend. Women always want to feel attractive but not let that be the only thing someone notices about them. They want to be listened to and encouraged.Essentially, think of most of your emotional needs and then try to imagine how you would feel receiving the attention you want to give a girl.

4. Know What Women Want In A Man

This is a natural extension of the last step. If women want to feel attractive but not let it dominate their personality, and they want to be listened to and respected, they obviously want a man who gives them these feelings.That means knowing them just enough and figuring out how to ask the right kind of questions to stay engaged.
Add a little charm and some humor, and you'll be doing pretty well for this step.

5. Meeting Women

This is actually a fairly easy step, since you probably know where to meet them because you know where women are (everywhere).
You can easily meet women in class or at work, out at a bar, at a club, at a party through mutual friends, and many other venues.
What you need to decide is the place you feel most comfortable meeting a woman and the way that will make you look your best.

6. Approaching her

This can be tricky for guys who struggle approaching women, but it's an important part of how to get a girlfriend, so you have to work on it.
Start by scoping out the scene. What is she doing? Is she with friends? Does she look entertained or bored?
Then, pick your moment when she's on her own or she isn't in the middle of a conversation, and choose whether to approach alone or with a friend if you are too nervous to go on your own.Finally, approach, and be as calm as possible. Try to communicate confidence. That'll go a long way to brushing over any awkwardnes

7. Talking To her

This is really a huge roadblock for some guys, and the cause of a lot of their nervousness.
However, if you want to know talk to them all you need to do is find something to say.
Sounds easy, right? It is. Just use these tips to always have a great line to throw out and get a conversation going.

Tip 1. Start A Conversation With A Girl

Stop struggling with starting conversation to them. These allow you to throw out a comment or question that really gets a conversation going in the direction you want it to go.These can be incredibly flexible for your personality and the situation. Go off-the-wall with questions about what someone would do for a living if it were the 1600s, or go deep about what should be free in life but isn't.You can go anywhere in-between. It's all up to you, just have a few options prepared.

Tip 2. Know What To Say To A Girl

Once you're in the conversation, you have to know what they say to keep that conversation going.You've scoped out the scene and can use your surroundings. You know a bit about women and can work off her reactions. And, you've got to move the conversation in a new direction.
Just listen, respond, make observations, and be prepared to change the subject if the conversation is running dry.

Tip 3. Make Her Laugh

Feel like things aren't clicking yet? Get her giggling and she'll be eager to keep the conversation going.
But how to make them laugh Well, you can start by have a few funny questions in your pocket.
Like conversation starters these can be extremely adaptable. You can put the pressure on her to be funny by asking her to tell her most embarrassing store

Tip 4. Give Her A Compliment

Balance out the funny with some compliments to let her know you're interested.
Don't sweat about how to compliment a girl, it's easy. The trick is to make sure the compliment really speaks to her and is not too obvious.
Tell her she has great taste if she's describing the kind of music or movies she likes. Or, tell her she's funny and so easy to talk to, so she knows you're having a good time
You can always throw in that she's beautiful later, but lead with something a little more personality-focused.

Tip 5. Know When To Move On

Whether it's the end of a conversation or a conversation that just won't take off, you have to know when to walk away.
If you're having a great conversation, don't cling too late. Give an excuse (after using Step 8 below) and get out of there before she's sick of you.
If you just aren't clicking, do the exact same, minus Step 8. There's no shame i just not quite hitting it off. Just go try with another girl.

Tip 6. Start A Text Conversation With A Girl

You can start direct and just tell her you were thinking of your conversation and wanted to chat. Or, go goofy by asking which topping absolutely never belongs on a pizza. You can also go more genuine and just open with a question about what she wants to be doing in five or ten years.

Tip 7. Make Your Texts Work For You

The beauty of text is that you don't have to rely just on your own wit and clever lines. You can let technology make you amusing.
Send her funny .gifs or share YøùTùbé clips to try to introduce her to your favorite show. Work with silly emojis and memes to get an easy chuckl

Tip 8. Ask Questions

You're already asking some questions with conversation starters, but if you really want to know the key to how to get a girlfriend, it's asking great questions. And text conversations are no different.
Ask her about her day. Ask her opinion about politics, school, work, TV, music. Ask her to tell you something personal that she doesn't share with anyone else.

Tip 9. Know What To Text A Girl

Send her a compliment,tell her you hope you can text again soon. Don't leave the conversation until you've at least implied you want to do this again, and soon.

10.Signs If A Girl Likes You

There are definitely signs that she likes you,First, if she's taking the initiative. If she's texting you, or asking to meet up, you know she's probably interested.
She may also show it by laughing extra hard at your bad jokes or showing a bit of extra nervousness around you.
Watch her body language when you see her as well. Does she lean in towards you? Does she look in your eyes? These are good signs.
Most importantly, if she continues to want to talk without showing any signs of chummy, friendly affection, she probably likes you.

11. Getting Out Of The Friend Zone

But what if she never and wont like you at all? What if you're stuck in the friend zone?
Essentially, forcing your way out can ruin a friendship, so decide if you really aren't happy with that friendship before moving forward.
If you are willing to sacrifice the friendship to gamble on getting closer, then the best way out of the friend zone is being direct.
Tell the girl you like her. Give her romantic compliments. Tell her you want to get closer.
At that point, she may respond in kind, or she may reject the idea. You have no control over that, but at least you'll have certainty.

12. Getting A Girl To Like You

Not every guy who is interested in a girl who isn't interested in him is stuck in the friend zone. Many just need to get closer to the girl they're interested in.
This is really a multi-front strategy, and it's best to pursue all of them at once.
Start by dressing better and taking more care of your looks.
Then, change how you talk to the girl. Flirt more, throw in more compliments that are both about her mental and physical appeal

13. The flirting skills

The best way to think about flirting is as a combination of the skills you're already working on. It's amusing, suggestive, and also complimentary.
Use those touches and eye contact to better show your meaning, then really lay into the compliments. Tell her you really love her name or no one can make that boring class you share interesting but her.
Flip these around to be more amusing. Tell her you know she only bothers with that class because you're there. Or that she really must love talking to you if she keeps texting.

14. Impress her

Simply by showing her you're making an effort. Dress better, be more polite and thoughtful, and show a more confident side.
Then, try to impress her based on her individual tastes. If she loves a certain kind of coffee, for instance, bring her a cup next time you meet up.
Show her you listen and you act on what you hear, and she's sure to be impressed

15. Ask her out

There's two equally good tactics here: you can either have some ways to ask her out or you can be direct.
You can buy her something cute (a teddy bear, chocolate, that cup of coffee mentioned above) and attach a note. Or, you can come up with some fun clues she has to solve to find out you're asking.Or, just look her in the eyes and ask. If you're brave enough for it, this is probably the best method, although flowers never hurt.

16. Ask her To Be Your Girlfriend

So, take her out on your best date. Buy her a very personal gift. And then, ask her straightforwardly, as confidently as you can.
Love. It's one of life's little mysteries. Actually, it's not that small. It's this big thing that takes over your life and makes it so much better. But before you get to the love stage, you need to find a girlfriend. Whether you have a girl in mind or you just want a girlfriend, knowing the best way to get a girlfriend is always an advantage.

excerpt from; Mantelligence
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Professora Akira

Bat ang habaa pag sa lalaki??!
Di bale next time nalang ako maaga pa naman 😌
hahaha step by step at detailed na nga eh:ROFLMAO:

salamat dito madam.... pero di dapat makita ng asawa ko na binabasa ko.... hehehe
uy exempted ka dito aba hahaha pikit ka na lang haha

Thank you prof sa advice. Yehey!
sundin mo yan ha memorize mo update mo ako pag nagwork out hahaha