Pag ginagamit kasi natin ung salitang "healed", it makes us think na kusa sila gagaling isang araw. Pero it is just about moving on, where moving on is a choice.
So, a person who "has not healed" is really a person who refuses to move on.. pero the ideas planted to us by romanticsm makes us fantasize that we are capable of saving them like a knight in shining armor. However successful you are in believing this, deep inside alam mo na this person is so capable of playing victim at kahit ikaw pwedeng ma-antogonize one day.