Hmmm nasa sayo na yan if you allowed him/her to have space or not. One thing is for sure, he/she feels toxic on your relationship. My advice is this, give him/her what he/she wish. Now let him/her do what he/she wants, the thing you do is to wait for him/her to realize. If you love him/her say this before giving his/her wants, "i love you so much and i need you". Then focus to other things and pray a lot. Be ready to move on para di ka masaktan in case tuluyan ka ng iwan niya. Ilagay mo palage sa isip mo "if di kayo eh hindi talaga kayo" at may ibang nakalaan para sayo.