Super duper selosa na girlfriend

[Nairobi]

Hello guys first time ko lang mag share dito gusto ko sana makahingi ng advice

I have a girlfriend na sobrang selosa and sobra kung magduda naiintindihan ko pa nung una kase nagka trust issue saken un in the past pero matagal ko ng pinagsisihan un pero this time sobra na dumating na sa point na lahat ng online games na nilalaro ko eh nilalaro nya na den may nakalaro lang ako na kahit sino pinagdududahan nya paden even if wala akong ininvite at random team player lang nakakalaro ko na wala akong pake kung babae ba o lalaki basta ako tumaas lang rank ko pero ganon paden isip nya at pag aawayan na namin un ilang oras at about naman sa movie group na pinagkakitaan namen gusto nya sya laging una ang link ( kase kumikita kame by uploading movies sa fb) sinasama ko naman link nya sa mga uploads ko kase referral ko sya doon kapag di ko napagbibigyan gusto nya sinasabihan nya akong makasarili sinabihan nya pa ako na sana mawaa yung group mo eh isa den sya sa nakikinabang kaya 3 chances na ang naibigay ko sa kanya para magbago kase mahal ko pero ngayon sumagad na pasensya ko at sobrang stress kona sa kanya at dumating sa point na bumibigat na pakiramdam ko dahil sa kanya ka at nakipagbreak ako sa kanya kanina and she still chasing me asking for forgiveness and give her a last chance, should i give her a last chance diko na alam kung magbabago pa e paulet ulet na lang yung issue. Sana matulungan nyo ako. Alam ko mababasa nya to since nagagamit nya den tong acc ko sa phcorner para mag dl ng movies.

 

[AMBA28]

sad

 

[ABuJay]

I-break mo na

 

[Moonblind]

Three chances are more than enough. If you're capable of experiencing the same thing, then give another single chance at most, then work on a decision.

 

[Nairobi]

Three chances are more than enough. If you're capable of experiencing the same thing, then give another single chance at most, then work on a decision.

Salamat lods pero grabe saket nya na sa ulo e pang apat na chance na to kung pagbibigyan ko pa stress nako sobra.

 

[Professora Akira]

It's often a rational jealousy,because of what had happened in the past.Maybe the best thing you should do everytime it occurs is not to respond to her jealousy with anger and humiliation.Try to deal with her irrational fears and feelings of inadequacy and insecurity,since di pa nawawala yung fear nya sa past.It is always advisable to stay calm or else things may turn really sour and can impact the relationship forever. She just needs your assurance, remind her how much you love her and care for her.She needs your support during those times and love to overcome her deepest fears of losing the relationship.You should at least,stay calm and remain patient to hear her accusations. Assure her that you love her and will always do so in the future as well.Her poor self-worth always needs assurance from you to feel secure and stable.She needs external validation that can make her feel self-sufficient and worthy. Make her feel loved always .This will help her feel good about herself, and slowly she will regain the confidence that is needed to build up a secure relationship.If she is still suspicious of your whereabouts, show her na nagbago kana talaga. Allow her to meet others from your social circle so that she feels loved and cared for.Be responsive and validate her feelings in a healthy way, without losing your temper.
Provide more attention,more compliments,more initiation of physical intimacy as well in short more time together.But if still everything the same and won't work then you have to decide if it’s worth your effort and if you can live with the frustrations.

 

[Solofly]

May ginawa ka pala in the past. Di basta basta nawawala yun pre na makakalimutan nya by magic. Sa totoo nga deal breaker na yan na dapat hiwalay na kayo ngayon. Tapos ikaw pa yun nakipag break wew.
I dont know na ikaw pa ang nag de demand ng "chances" eh ikaw yung gumawa ng kabulastugan kung ano man yan in the past . So kung ako gagawa ng kabulastugan sa gf ko at nag demand ako ng reconciliation tapos yun yung coping mechanism nya like pagiging selosa at toxic titiisin ko yun para to show her na pinagsisihan ko yun. So i think you have no accountability from your actions kase instead na titiisin mo yun at show her na pinagsisihan mo yun ikaw pa yung controlling at nag de demand. Be humble bro. Matuto ka rin mag care ng feelings sa ibang tao. Wag puro sarili lang iniisip mo.
Ang tanong pinagsisihan mo ba talaga yung ginawa mo sa past?