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Mas maganda pakinggan "wala tayong obligasyon".. may negative connotation kasi pag "wala tayong utang na loob".. pero agree ako haha..Para sakin paps, wala tayong utang na loob sa kanila, kasi di naman natin pinili ang mabuhay sa mundo, dapat sila ang maayos na nag palaki satin at the same time sa sarili nila, kasi sila ang gumusto na mag anak.
Good luck paps. Wag na natin ipasa sakanila ung nakagisnan nating kultura.Nope. Sila may gusto mag anak kaya sila ang may responsibility na ibigay ang needs ng mga anak nila. But on the other hand, pwede (voluntary not mandatory) tayo magbigay sa kanila yung kaya lang natin.
Kaya ngayun sobrang gusto ko ng kumuha ng stable job for my daughter. Para din sa future nya.
U knew the right words paps. Agree ako sa sinabi moMas maganda pakinggan "wala tayong obligasyon".. may negative connotation kasi pag "wala tayong utang na loob".. pero agree ako haha.
I agree. Actually ung existence ng mga masamang magulang(sa iba) ang nagiging dahilan kung bakit mas naappreciate natin ang magulang natin, kaya mas lalong mahirap matanggap ung mismong argument na "It's the parents who owes their kids.."parang mahirap ata lunukin yung argumento na yan magulang mo pa may utang na loob sayokahit na naging rebel kid ako, sinuway ko noon ang mga payo nila, binigyan ko sila ng madaming sakit ng ulo at hindi ako nag live up the way they expected, tinataw ko padin malaking utang na loob ang nilabas nila ko dito sa mundo na to, pag aaruga, unconditional love na binigay nila saken, ang mga bagay na yan hindi ko mababayan at matutumbasan ng kahit anong salapi, yaman na pede ko kitain..
Pede ang argumentong ganyan sa mga indibidwal na lumaki at namulat sa mga iresponsable, pabaya at abusadong magulang.
The truth is, kung napalaki sila ng tama, regardless of how they feel about your parenting style; They will be grateful wether you expect it or not.I will not obligate them to give us what they have.. but i do expect them to be there if they could..
Contrary to popular belief, in the commandment:The truth is, its the other way around, it is you who chose your parents.
The reason: You need a specific condition to work on a specific issue in your karma. You need to be born on the precise people that will produce the genes, environment, sustenance, culture, mind, and etc for your own growth. You made the choice to be born here.
That is why it is included in the 10 commandments and other spiritual writings, in summary, HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER.
The arrogance of man from his "analysis and knowledge" knows no bound.
He hath forsaken the very bosom that nourished him.
I understand na may mga taong ganon na sobrang ingrata towards their own parents pero pagdating sa ibang tao…dami ko din kilala ganan…I agree. Actually ung existence ng mga masamang magulang(sa iba) ang nagiging dahilan kung bakit mas naappreciate natin ang magulang natin, kaya mas lalong mahirap matanggap ung mismong argument na "It's the parents who owes their kids.."
Pero, may punto nmn din kung papakinggan mo nang buo ang context. Lalo kung coconsider mos din na may mga anak na walang utang na loob kahit mabuti ang magulang nila. So you should also accept some credit I guess? Malakas lng din tlga ung argument ng "conditional view" kung saan pasok ang nararamadaman mo about sa quote na iyon, na hindi din nmn naiiba sa akin.
Gaya mo, naging suwail na anak din ako. At the same time may mga punto na naging abuso din nmn ang trato ng magulang ko sakin. Kahit ganon, mahirap padin sakin lunukin yung linya na iyan personally.
The truth is, kung napalaki sila ng tama, regardless of how they feel about your parenting style; They will be grateful wether you expect it or not.
But I'm sure meron prin aalma sa statement na yan when we realize it also implies na babalik din sa parents ang sisi kung ingrata ang kinalabasan na anak.
Well ako personally, i will choose to care for my parents “especially when they need it”it would be the law vs the stu̾pid culture and religion, culture keeps injecting that we need to care for them especially when they need it but actually it is them who goes to jail when they don't care for us, culture and religion has no real jail but the law has so my answer would be "hell no" and i am not requiring my sons and daughters ffs
made the choice of parents …The truth is, its the other way around, it is you who chose your parents.
The reason: You need a specific condition to work on a specific issue in your karma. You need to be born on the precise people that will produce the genes, environment, sustenance, culture, mind, and etc for your own growth. You made the choice to be born here.
That is why it is included in the 10 commandments and other spiritual writings, in summary, HONOR YOUR FATHER AND MOTHER.
The arrogance of man from his "analysis and knowledge" knows no bound.
He hath forsaken the very bosom that nourished him.
made the choice of parents …
So those children born to abusive parents made that choice? They chose to be a child to a father who r@p3s them everyday? Or a mother who beats them endlessly??
Magkakaron ba ng help sa growth nila yan??
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