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so here's the story i have my girlfriend 1 yr and 1 mnth kami this last September 15, LDR nag-meet na rin kami.

everything seems fine but minsan ako di ko naiintindihan context nung sinasabi niya then ako nag rereply agad without saying na "di ko naiintindihan" and na offend ko siya tho 2 times lang ito nangyari sa buong relationship namin.

and then nung september 15 may sinabi siya "di ko na kaya, pagod na ko", "di ko na naiintindihan sarili ko kakaintindi sa ibang tao", "natatakot ako sa'yo mag open up kasi feeling ko di mo ko iintindihin", "piling ko wala ng iintindi sakin", "gusto ko munang ako muna". ayan mga sinabi niya I don't know if break up yan or cool off or pahinga ba. stress din siya that day sa school kasi daming school works, di na kami masyado nag-usap after that nag-usap kami nung may na receive siyang shopee from me.

break up ba o nag-uunwind lang?

and after some time inayos ko sarili ko although inayos ko na talaga simula nung past 2 months listening podcast how to be a good listener and good person.

and kahapon may pinned siya na kanta sa facebook "already over by sabrina carpenter" containing this lyrics ikaw anong interpretation mo dito


We've been talking for hours
'Bout how we shouldn't talk for hours on end
Kissing after a conversation
'Bout how we'd probably be better off as friends
Same time here next weekend
Say, "We won't do this again"
Make me fall where I stand
Only like you can
Yeah, I say, "I'm done, but I'm still confused"
How am I supposed to close the door when I still need the closure?
And I change my mind, but it's still on you
How am I supposed to leave you now that you're already over?
How am I supposed to leave you now that you're already over?


and nung nakaraang dalawang araw napag-isip isip ko na bigyan siya ng bulaklak love and apology handwritten letters and chocolate and ako na magcucustomize ng box yung flowers is tulips na natural which is favorite niya, balak ko siyang ligawan ulit kasi ayon yung ni-promise ki sa kanya "what if nag-break tayo, anong gagawin mo?" and i said na "liligawan kita ulit" pumayag naman siya. pero di sa ngayon di ako magpuput pressure pag magdedecide siya. tatanggapin kaya niya? good idea kaya yung magbigay ng flower after that conflict?
 
Minsan yung pagod mo sa pagintindi sa ibang tao di mo namamalayan naoout of love ka na pala. Give her space muna maybe hindi niya kasi nakikita ma nageeffort ka intindihin siya. Baka may problema siya pero ni hindi mo natatanong kung okay lang ba o may problema ba at di rin siya magsasabi kasi nga tingin niya di mo iintindihin. Nakakapagod yung ganun sa totoo lang. Try to talk to her after some time para iclear yung ano mang namimisunderstand niyo
 

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