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It is often said na once selosa si gf ,mahal ka nyang talaga.But kapag somobra na
ir seems unhealthy and mostly nauuwi sa bangayan at pagka fade ng isang relationship.
We all know how tiring it is,kapag paulit ulit na lang at break up agad ang kahahantungan.
Just wanna share sa inyo mga nabasa kong worth tips to try,ne rephrase ko lang yung iba para at least mas maintindihan na din
and to make it clear it's not just mainly a copy paste thing.
Binabasa ko munang maigi and have some review and summaries before making a thread to further understand its context.
So to avoid such thing or before it gets worst here are some tips below to handle it:
Kulang lang yan sa lambing kumbaga.
Better be honest all the time . Thus to prevent doubts from arising maging totoo ka lang wala naman sigurp reason para magsinungaling ka unless you are cheating in a relationship.Kung may nagawa ka mang kamalian, it's better to admit it than mask it with a lie.
-Excerpt from afrinik-
ir seems unhealthy and mostly nauuwi sa bangayan at pagka fade ng isang relationship.
We all know how tiring it is,kapag paulit ulit na lang at break up agad ang kahahantungan.
Just wanna share sa inyo mga nabasa kong worth tips to try,ne rephrase ko lang yung iba para at least mas maintindihan na din
and to make it clear it's not just mainly a copy paste thing.
Binabasa ko munang maigi and have some review and summaries before making a thread to further understand its context.
So to avoid such thing or before it gets worst here are some tips below to handle it:
Keep Calm
Kumalma ka lang at wag mag overreact as much as possible.Let her see your serenity;then the girl will understand that you have nothing to hide and maybe even admit the wrongness of her behaviorBaseless accusations and reproaches mauuwi lang sa bangayan , it is unclear why. Yes ,It isn’t easy to remain calm sa isang sitwasyon na ganito, but you must be at a calm stage.
Don’t get defensive
Of courseonce inagbintangan ka ng ganio ganun,it will surely drive you into a level of reflexes, you willl then have a desire to defend against these attacks.Dyan magsisimula yung arguments at lots of excuses. So you better not to. If di ka naman guilty at di mo talaga ginawa ang bagay na yun then there's nothing to worry about. Your attempts at self-defense will become another reason for a jealous girl na pagduduhan ka at makwekwestyon ang loyalty mo for sure.
Show her your love
Karaniwang cause ng jealousy sa mga girls is the lack of attention from the guy. Of course, you don’t need to turn your life into the latest episode of a soap opera or anything. But di naman siguro superfluous thing t na ipakita sa kanya how much you love her from time to time diba?. Magbibigay ito ng sense of security and confidence sa relasyon nyo.Kulang lang yan sa lambing kumbaga.
Compliment her
Isang pang nagtritrigger ng selos ay ang tinatawag na self-doubt. So para mapawi ito, always compliment your girlfriend.Di naman siguro ganun kahirap diba? Kapag may bago syang sinuot o mga may mga niluto syang másáráp o bagay sya sa new haircut nya. Always give a compliment naman para at least mawala insecurity nya at maging confident naman sya.It might just be a little thing but it will surely create a great impact to her.Learn about the reason for jealousy
Bago solusyunan ang problema, dapat mo unang alamin agad kung ano at saan ba nagroot ang selos. Talk to your her calmly and tanungin mo bakit.Dapat be a good listener din para mag work out ang usapan.Kasi if both of you paiiralin ang pride hindi din masosolve yan.Be open to communicate bigyan mo sya ng pagkakaton na makapagpaliwanag bago mo e defend ang sarili mo,pakinggan mo muna ang kanyang panig.
Don’t keep secrets from her
Ito talaga kadalasan ang lelead to selosan eh.Kahit pa ang lie na yan ay good motives, its still a lie and casts a shadow over your relationship.Better be honest all the time . Thus to prevent doubts from arising maging totoo ka lang wala naman sigurp reason para magsinungaling ka unless you are cheating in a relationship.Kung may nagawa ka mang kamalian, it's better to admit it than mask it with a lie.
Be patient
Higit sa lahat kailangan mo lagi ng mahabang pasesnya. Nature na sa aming mga babae na madaming tanong so when your girlfriend asks too many questions, habaan mo pasensya mo at sagutin mo din ng matino at hindi pasigaw.Yung humility mo will become proof that you are not deceiving her and that you value your relationship.Wag agad makikipagsagutan kasi normal lang sa babae ganyan.Wag agad mag attempt ng break up ng hindi man lang nareresolve ang kaunting di pagkakaunawaan.-Excerpt from afrinik-
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thanks sa tips crush haha
,free to bm po it can wait haha
ikaw na talaga ang top poster of the year every year. 
