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Ingat sa mga Narcissist.

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Magandang araw sa inyu, 1st tym ko mag post dito hehe,
pro matagal na ako sa forum sites.

ito nlng share ko tungkol sa mga tao na narcissist,
mostly ganito na mga tao sa paligid natin pro unaware tau at sila rin.
So, ito ang mga signs dapat natin bantayan lalo na pag involved
ang lablyf.

na experience ko na rin ito, pro binaliktad ko sya hahaha napansin ko na kc. 😆

kaya ingat guys sa mga tao na mangagamit lng.

LOVE BOMBING - sinasanay ka nla, tapos iwan ka bigla. Parang addiction.

1. They were charming at first.
Your relationship might have felt like a fairytale at first — maybe they complimented you constantly or told you they loved you within the first month.
Maybe they tell you how smart you are or emphasize how compatible you are, even if you just started seeing each other.
“Narcissists think that they deserve to be with other people who are special, and that special people are the only ones who can appreciate them fully,”


Self centered - puro sya ang topic o one sided lng kau, wala sya paki sau.

2. They hog the conversation, talking about how great they are.
They’re also too busy talking about themselves to listen to you.

The warning is two-part here, says Grace. First, your partner won’t stop talking about themselves, and second, your partner won’t engage in conversation about you.

3 They lack empathy
Lack of empathy, or the ability to feel how another person is feeling, is one of the hallmark characteristics of a narcissist, Walfish says. People who have NPD are often unable to apologizeTrusted Source and understand the feelings and perspectives of others.

“Narcissists lack the skill to make you feel seen, validating, understood, or accepted, because they don’t grasp the concept of feelings,” she says.

MANIPULATOR - controlado kana nla, bigla mo nlng realize yan.

ito na yung pinaka worst.

4.
They gaslight you
Gaslighting is a form of manipulation and emotional abuse, and it’s a hallmark of narcissism. People with NPD may tell blatant lies, falsely accuse others, spin the truth, and ultimately distort your reality — especially in response toTrusted Source perceived challenges of authority or fear of abandonment

Signs of gaslighting include the followin

You no longer feel like the person you used to b
You feel more anxious and less confident than you used to be
You often wonder if you’re being too sensitive
You feel like everything you do is wrong
You always think it’s your fault when things go wrong
You’re apologizing often
You have a sense that something’s wrong, but aren’t able to identify what it is
You often question whether your response to your partner is appropriate
You make excuses for your partner’s behavior


fina quotes guys,
Being in a relationship with someone who’s constantly criticizing, belittling, gaslighting, and not committing to you may feel emotionally exhausting.

How to prepare for the breakup?

Constantly remind yourself you deserve better.
Strengthen your relationships with your empathetic friends.



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mgandang gantong topic , kasi naka experience na ko gantong tao , tapos bigla na lang saung iiwas kahit wala kang ginagawang masama ung tipong akala mo sila ung victim tsaka hindi marnung mag apologise mga narcissist😢
baka may maipayo ka ts pano talunin tong mga gantong klaseng tao, hindi mo nmn pde sakalin bka makulong ka 🤣
 
mgandang gantong topic , kasi naka experience na ko gantong tao , tapos bigla na lang saung iiwas kahit wala kang ginagawang masama ung tipong akala mo sila ung victim tsaka hindi marnung mag apologise mga narcissist😢
baka may maipayo ka ts pano talunin tong mga gantong klaseng tao, hindi mo nmn pde sakalin bka makulong ka 🤣
kaya nga sir d2 nlng ako gawa kg thread sa section na toh hahaha

pra din kc self awareness natin, tech savy din ako engr. mas lalo dami mag take advantage sa atin.

pro yung experience mo tol na nag feeling victim yung abusado sus iwas kna nlng dun.

mag feeling close, ina appreciate tau at first pro yun
pala, ginagamit lng tau.

WE HAVE TO LEARN TO SAY NO.

Lalu na sa mga chix, hehehe

kung advice nmn sa lablyf, iwan ko nlng mabubulag kc ang tao. Conviction na nya yan.

✌️
 
ang nangyare kasi sakin nireto ako ng hindi ko alm , masaklap nun ung nag reto sakin hindi ko din kilala hahahahahah
nagulat na lang ako pinaparinggan ako ng babae na kapatid nya , mga panlalait tsaka pang mamaliit, cmula nung nalaman nya ng babae na un , nahindi ko alm na nireto pala ako ,eh hindi na napunta sa bahay nila pra dalawin ung nanay at tatay nyang matanda na kakalungkot eh
 
ang nangyare kasi sakin nireto ako ng hindi ko alm , masaklap nun ung nag reto sakin hindi ko din kilala hahahahahah
nagulat na lang ako pinaparinggan ako ng babae na kapatid nya , mga panlalait tsaka pang mamaliit, cmula nung nalaman nya ng babae na un , nahindi ko alm na nireto pala ako ,eh hindi na napunta sa bahay nila pra dalawin ung nanay at tatay nyang matanda na kakalungkot eh
hahaha kakaiba rin ang buhay mu sir.

family friend kau? kababata mu sir?
 
itoh na yan sir, Stockholm syndrome.

Ang Stockholm syndrome ay ang pagkakaroon ng positibong damdamin sa mga tao nang-aabuso sa kanila.
saklap.
😥
 
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kakahiya nmn sau sir,
problema kc ng mga pogi ang hinaharap mu ngaun. hahaha✌️
hindi na talaga napunta ung babae , ano sa palagay mo ts na guilty din ba mga narcissist or akala nya diskartehan ko kapatid nya kasi wala na sya ...ang mangyayare prang hulog ako sa patibong😢
 
hindi na talaga napunta ung babae , ano sa palagay mo ts na guilty din ba mga narcissist or akala nya diskartehan ko kapatid nya kasi wala na sya ...ang mangyayare prang hulog ako sa patibong😢
hmm sa palagay ko sir, grabeh cgro ang paninira na mga salita ang binanggit nya tungkol sau, kaya nagka ganun wla na xa mukha na nahaharap dahil sa kahihiyan.

kaya nung naging jowa muna cgro yung kapatid nya hindi na xa umuwi sa kanila.
 
hmm sa palagay ko sir, grabeh cgro ang paninira na mga salita ang binanggit nya tungkol sau, kaya nagka ganun wla na xa mukha na nahaharap dahil sa kahihiyan.

kaya nung naging jowa muna cgro yung kapatid nya hindi na xa umuwi sa kanila.
hindi ko jowa ts..hindi ko nga nililigawan hahahaha . may pag ka introvert kasi ako nyahahahah
 

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