I'm Being Toxic

[Dark_Limiter]

Just want to know your insights or some advise for me.

So maikling version nlng, mag 1year na kmi ng gf ko pero lately eh lagi kong nafefeel na lolokohin ako or naiiwan nko kaya ending eh madalas kami nagaaway.

 

[Solofly]

May mga gut feelings kaba tol katulad ng medyo distant na sya o kinukutuban?
O may history kaba na nag cheat yung ex mo? O may mga deep issues ka like dumadaan ka sa depression or stress?
Trust issues like sa kabilang ka sa broken fam?
Kung lagi mo sya ina accused might blow off your relationship. Para kang nag se set ng time bomb sa relationship nyo anytime sasabog.

 

[Min3]

Di naten maiiwasan na maka feel ng ganyan lalo na pag nakikita natin na maganda jowa naten ( hahahha ) pero as partner/mag jowa you should put trust on your jowa/gf that is the only way......And you should not love too much ika nga nila kasi too much love will kill you ( ay kanta pala yun hahhaha) joke aside kung gaano ka mag mahal if iiwan ka ganun ka din masasaktan.....kaya as long as mag jowa kayo try to trust her

 

[Professora Akira]

If you feel you are in a toxic relationship maybe might better to take some actions.Tell her how you feel and open up .Try to approach her about your concerns maybe di lang sya aware about her actions and how you are feeling right now.Youn need to be assertived and make clear on paano ka nya tinatrato at binabalewala but still in a respectful way.Try to control your responses as well because the more you respond rudely or both of you respond that way magpapatuloy lang yung toxicity ng relationship nyo .If still ganun pa din pauili ulit siguro better leave kai mahirap talaga kapag ganyan .Toxic relationship can still be fix if and only if you are both willing and still committed to communicate and reflect during that difficult situations that you are currently facing.

 

[_Awe_]

LDR ba? Usap ang need diyan. Dapat laging open ang communication ninyo. Maaaring magresult sa toxic na relationship ang pag-overthink minsan.

 

[Dark_Limiter]

May mga gut feelings kaba tol katulad ng medyo distant na sya o kinukutuban?
O may history kaba na nag cheat yung ex mo? O may mga deep issues ka like dumadaan ka sa depression or stress?
Trust issues like sa kabilang ka sa broken fam?
Kung lagi mo sya ina accused might blow off your relationship. Para kang nag se set ng time bomb sa relationship nyo anytime sasabog.

Siguro paps eh stress, meron den ksi syang rp account(role play) though meron na tlga sya before we met..sinuggest ko naden dati na if we can open our accounts pero ang sagot nya baka daw mag cause pa lalo ng mga away.

Di naten maiiwasan na maka feel ng ganyan lalo na pag nakikita natin na maganda jowa naten ( hahahha ) pero as partner/mag jowa you should put trust on your jowa/gf that is the only way......And you should not love too much ika nga nila kasi too much love will kill you ( ay kanta pala yun hahhaha) joke aside kung gaano ka mag mahal if iiwan ka ganun ka din masasaktan.....kaya as long as mag jowa kayo try to trust her

Hahhaa tama kadyan paps ganda masyado ng jowa ko samantalang ako eh normies lng, too late na ata ko sa too much love haha mundo konasya eh.

If you feel you are in a toxic relationship maybe might better to take some actions.Tell her how you feel and open up .Try to approach her about your concerns maybe di lang sya aware about her actions and how you are feeling right now.Youn need to be assertived and make clear on paano ka nya tinatrato at binabalewala but still in a respectful way.Try to control your responses as well because the more you respond rudely or both of you respond that way magpapatuloy lang yung toxicity ng relationship nyo .If still ganun pa din pauili ulit siguro better leave kai mahirap talaga kapag ganyan .Toxic relationship can still be fix if and only if you are both willing and still committed to communicate and reflect during that difficult situations that you are currently facing.

thankyou dito paps, may time naman na inaapproach ko sya dito binibigyan nya nman ako ng assurance pero para saken d enough ganun, lately ksi eh puro na kami away

LDR ba? Usap ang need diyan. Dapat laging open ang communication ninyo. Maaaring magresult sa toxic na relationship ang pag-overthink minsan.

LDR paps, pero ilang beses na kami nakapagmeetup and legal nman na kami both side, dko rin alam bat ngayon ko to naeexperience. isa rin sguro yung pagooverthink na madalas konalang sinasarli

 

[smokre]

in short lods time na para mangabit ka HAHAHA. galingan mo lang mag tago LODS AHHAHA