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UNDERSTAND.
Di sya yung tipong perpektong tao.. At some point he will be inconsistent. Sometimes he will be impatient. Sometimes nahihirapan syang maghandle ng iyong mood swings. Di maiwasan minsan nagagalit din sya.His mood changes as well.FREEDOM.
Bigyan mo sya ng freedom to do the things na gusto nya.Wag mo sya masyado sakalin.Kasi if mahal ka nyang totoo, will never do things na makakasakit sayo.Take note mayroon din syang sariling buhay at will to live ,at matasa ang freedom,so wag mong ipagkait sa kanya.. You are not his only world.RECIPROCATE.
Make efforts din para sa kanya.Di yunh sya na lang lagi nag eeffort para sayo.It should always work on both ways. Ask him if kumusta araw nya. Ask him what went wrong. Love him hard as well. Be patient with him too.RESPECT.
You have to respect his choices and decisions. Give him respect that he deserves.Equally given yun to make relationship work.Respecting towards each other is a sign of a healthy relationahip.AFFECTION.
Show him that you care by giving warm hugs. Show to him that you are always there for him.Ipakita mo din sa kanya not only by words but by actions.On how you love him,di lang naman tayo ang nanganhailangan ng lambing tuwing nagtatampo,they also need that.ATTENTION.
Like you, he needs your attention too.Maglaan ka dapat ng oras sa kanya.Give him compliments as well. Pwedi din e surprise mo sya minsan.He needs reassurance that he is the only one for you. Do not give him reasons to doubt you.APPRECIATE.
Do not make his efforts left unnoticed. Appreciate all the things that he has done for you.Gaya ng pag appreciate nya sa mga ginagawa mo.
Wala naman talagang " perfect man".What's ideally ideal depends on how you both work to it. At some point, you will get disappointed and upset because he did not become the man you expect him to be. But because you love him you accept every bits of him. If is worth the risk, keep him."
excerpt from -Relationship
