Tutorial Basic Rules to Find Love

[Professora Akira]

Don't just rely on ‘You’ll find love when you’re not looking’​

-it's just like saying 'You'll find job when you're least looking for"Yes possible yun
but rare lang yung ganun.Parang minsan nagiging excuse lang yan ng fear to exert an effort.
We dont need to be much desperate but we should aso exert an effort para mahanap
ang the one.

Go where people like the same things you like.​

Go out of you shell,meet and socialize on the outside world minsan.
Try to get involved in some social activities,Do something fun and which you really love to
,makihalubilo ka sa mga taong sa tingin mo mas makakavibes mo.

Don’t seek romance, seek partnership.​

Partnership last longer than romance alone,especially in tough times.
“Don’t look for someone who sweeps you off your feet.Umiwas sa ka mga control freak.
Pilin mo yung marunong umunawa sa "give and take process."

Happy people attract people.​

First you must like and love yourself as well,
you must be happy woth who you really are to attract someone.
The more na kinamumuhian mo sarili mo ,the more people repeal on you.

Instant sexual attraction often fades.​

As Ghandi said"Most good love is a slow burn — it takes a while to develop,"
Yes attraction is a must but
di mo kailngan e feel yan agad agad,kasi that instant spark often tend to be just
a lust and temporary feeling rather than a real one.

Beware of the ‘opposites attract’ theory.​

Opposites attract at first, but they’ll likely face major friction points down the road.
Like minded people are the ones who have healthier relationships though.
The more you see eye-to-eye on, the less there is to argue and compromise about.

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Become a ‘psychotic optimist’.​

You have to embrace its process,take it slow,
Casually getting to know three to five people at the same time until you find one to be exclusive with.

Understand your own needs.​

Do you need a lot of space? Desire lots of affection? Have to know what’s going on all the time?
you need to know it and be able to communicate it to your future spouse.

Know the difference between fooling around and building a real relationship.​

Before you bring someone into your life, or share money or living space, remember they’re bringing baggage.”
Most often,The person you’re dating is on their best behavior in the beginning so beware sa mga pakitang tao lang sa simula.
Get to know what's hidden before evrything gets to far and too late.

Stop pining for someone who is unavailable.​

Make yourself understand that holding on to somebody who isn’t interested or isn’t there for you is harmful, and move on.





excerpt and paraphrase from Today

 

[Misanthropy]

gandang post naman, salamat.

 

[Dismal]

Salamat sa mga tips para mahanap ang pag-ibig

 

[AMDG]

Salamat sa tips! Keep sharing.

 

[Reen-Oath]

Tama prof wag hanapin ang pagibig itoy darating sayo haha

 

[Clarie]

Salamat po, I feel na maynalalabag ako sa nabangit . Thanks sa tips, hindi napo mauulit tita.

 

[Professora Akira]

Salamat po, I feel na maynalalabag ako sa nabangit . Thanks sa tips, hindi napo mauulit tita.

hehe ,wag na talaga ulitin pangkin

 

[FrostSigma]

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[Professora Akira]

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sa ganyang situation po i think mas ok muna if give her space ,why not try reverse psychology,baka magwork.Hayaan mo sya naman ang maghanap sayo o mag reach out,Don't be too available most times.Pa miss din paminsan and tingnan natin if effective ba ,as of now that's the least option I can advice.

 

[Queen Buns]

* Don't look for love

Because, true love is always unexpected

 

[Deleted member 1954679]

pa-bm TS, salamat sa mahalagang tutorial

 

[FrostSigma]

sa ganyang situation po i think mas ok muna if give her space ,why not try reverse psychology,baka magwork.Hayaan mo sya naman ang maghanap sayo o mag reach out,Don't be too available most times.Pa miss din paminsan and tingnan natin if effective ba ,as of now that's the least option I can advice.

Thanks po

 

[Professora Akira]

Thanks po

you're alway welcome

 

[N E G A N]

another term po for minsan need morin maging marupok eh

 

[JabolWock]

partnership pala dapat ang hinahanap hindi romansahan salamat sa pstutotial professora

 

[Lelouch Lamperouge]

matagal na akong single prof at hindi rin naman ako naghahanap kasi nga iniisip ko lagi wala akong stable job at sa akin umaasa ang pamilya ko.. kaya parang nasanay na akong ganito hehe.. oo may mga nagpaparamdam pero alam ko namang katawan ko lang ang habol nila aahhhahahhahaahahahahah

 

[Reen-Oath]

matagal na akong single prof at hindi rin naman ako naghahanap kasi nga iniisip ko lagi wala akong stable job at sa akin umaasa ang pamilya ko.. kaya parang nasanay na akong ganito hehe.. oo may mga nagpaparamdam pero alam ko namang katawan ko lang ang habol nila aahhhahahhahaahahahahah

bwahahah natawa ako sa katawan lang ang habol nila

 

[Professora Akira]

matagal na akong single prof at hindi rin naman ako naghahanap kasi nga iniisip ko lagi wala akong stable job at sa akin umaasa ang pamilya ko.. kaya parang nasanay na akong ganito hehe.. oo may mga nagpaparamdam pero alam ko namang katawan ko lang ang habol nila aahhhahahhahaahahahahah

grabe naman yanseryuso pa ako nagbabasa haha sa huli natawa talaga ako

 

[Dismal]

matagal na akong single prof at hindi rin naman ako naghahanap kasi nga iniisip ko lagi wala akong stable job at sa akin umaasa ang pamilya ko.. kaya parang nasanay na akong ganito hehe.. oo may mga nagpaparamdam pero alam ko namang katawan ko lang ang habol nila aahhhahahhahaahahahahah

Marami ka na sigurong abs dahil sa mga ehersisyong ginagawa mo.

 

[Lelouch Lamperouge]

Marami ka na sigurong abs dahil sa mga ehersisyong ginagawa mo.

haahahhaha wala pa talaga hahhaha tabs uu hahahah