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A quick scan for red flags is never a bad idea. After all, you want to know what you're getting into before you fall head-over-heels, right?So Before you commit to someone—especially your crush—social media can help you determine the type of person they really are.All of this can give insights into a person's likes, dislikes and interests. Sometimes, even the types of people they follow can say a lot about who they are. It can also be full of warning signs. Here are some of the red flags to be looking out for.
The Feed Is Full of Selfies
Kung lagi mong nakikitang puno ng selfies yung feeds nya,, chances are this person is very self-absorbed. Too many selfies is an immediate red flag because super selfish people tend to be terrible in relationships.
Pics With Different Good Looking People
Being single and ready to mingle is one thing, but posting a pic with every good-looking person who crosses their path is a sign of desperation. People who are constantly posting pics like this are usually seeking attention and need to work on themselves before they will make a good partner to someone else.
They Post Endless Status Updates
They might seem sweet and kind,but tread lightly around the endless status-updater.Sila yung mga taong need mo iwasan.These people tend to be ranting all over social media and are clearly more unhappy and negative than they lead on.
Their Photos Are Always Super Flashy
Beware of the bragger. Yung feeling nila galanteng galante na sila.There is nothing less attractive than someone who feels the need to show off everything about their life. If the apple of your eye is posting pics of their new car, fancy clothes, or other obnoxiously extra things, un-crush yourself real quick.
They Post Tons of Party Pics
Having a good time is fun and all, It might be ok to some but ,not to others.If your crush is constantly posting party pics, chances are they're really only focused on having a good time and not on finding a relationship. Unless you're the party type, too, and your circles connect, take this red flag seriously.
They Don't Follow You
This one hurts. Unless you've straight-up never talked to your crush, it's a dagger to the heart to find out they don't follow you online. If you've hung out outside of school, have a class together, have studied together or share similar friends, after a few interactions they should be following you—so if they don't, take it as a sign. Also, if you're sent a friend request but still no avail, that's a big red flag, too.
Your Follow Request
If your crush won't accept your follow request, so you can't even see their profile and posts, that's a red flag for a couple of reasons. Firstly, it may show that they're not interested in you seeing their posts, which means they're likely not into you as a person, either. Secondly, it might be a sign that they're hiding something from you. Both are signs of immaturity, and if they won't even let you follow them on social media, chances are that they don't deserve your time and energy.
They Make Passive-Aggressive Posts About Social or Political Issues
Some people's social media accounts seem more focused on inciting drama and getting into debates than actually contributing anything meaningful. If you see that your crush is always contributing to social and political topics with passive-aggressive posts that only stir up tension, that's a huge red flag. You may also find that your crush may have different viewpoints than you on important social topics that you won't budge on. It's good to know how they think before you end up in a relationship with them.
excerpt from SweetHigh
The Feed Is Full of SelfiesKung lagi mong nakikitang puno ng selfies yung feeds nya,, chances are this person is very self-absorbed. Too many selfies is an immediate red flag because super selfish people tend to be terrible in relationships.
Pics With Different Good Looking PeopleBeing single and ready to mingle is one thing, but posting a pic with every good-looking person who crosses their path is a sign of desperation. People who are constantly posting pics like this are usually seeking attention and need to work on themselves before they will make a good partner to someone else.
They Post Endless Status UpdatesThey might seem sweet and kind,but tread lightly around the endless status-updater.Sila yung mga taong need mo iwasan.These people tend to be ranting all over social media and are clearly more unhappy and negative than they lead on.
Their Photos Are Always Super FlashyBeware of the bragger. Yung feeling nila galanteng galante na sila.There is nothing less attractive than someone who feels the need to show off everything about their life. If the apple of your eye is posting pics of their new car, fancy clothes, or other obnoxiously extra things, un-crush yourself real quick.
They Post Tons of Party PicsHaving a good time is fun and all, It might be ok to some but ,not to others.If your crush is constantly posting party pics, chances are they're really only focused on having a good time and not on finding a relationship. Unless you're the party type, too, and your circles connect, take this red flag seriously.
They Don't Follow YouThis one hurts. Unless you've straight-up never talked to your crush, it's a dagger to the heart to find out they don't follow you online. If you've hung out outside of school, have a class together, have studied together or share similar friends, after a few interactions they should be following you—so if they don't, take it as a sign. Also, if you're sent a friend request but still no avail, that's a big red flag, too.
Your Follow RequestIf your crush won't accept your follow request, so you can't even see their profile and posts, that's a red flag for a couple of reasons. Firstly, it may show that they're not interested in you seeing their posts, which means they're likely not into you as a person, either. Secondly, it might be a sign that they're hiding something from you. Both are signs of immaturity, and if they won't even let you follow them on social media, chances are that they don't deserve your time and energy.
They Make Passive-Aggressive Posts About Social or Political IssuesSome people's social media accounts seem more focused on inciting drama and getting into debates than actually contributing anything meaningful. If you see that your crush is always contributing to social and political topics with passive-aggressive posts that only stir up tension, that's a huge red flag. You may also find that your crush may have different viewpoints than you on important social topics that you won't budge on. It's good to know how they think before you end up in a relationship with them.
excerpt from SweetHigh
